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Question: What is it about clubbing!?
i don't get clubbing!. my gf loves it but i dont!. plus we are in a long itance relationship and i would like her not to club because i feel clubbing is for single people or couples who are physically together!. am i right!? as in you go to club expecting to hit on someone if you are single or not with your partner

and, can you have fun clubbing without alcohol!? Www@QuestionHome@Com


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clubbing like dancing or swimming is a like or dislike thing!. i've never seen anyone stay middle of the road!. clubbing is for singles, pairs as u said or groups!. if she is going alone she is probably not faithful but!.!.!.i can't say i don't know her or know for sure!. i agree long distance relationships rarely work out!. if i drink i have 2 at the most!. i hate the feeling of not being able to balance or do things without some grace!. so i sip soda!. watching the drunks fall all over themselves, puke or pick fights or be generally obnoxious is not fun for me!. if i go it is for the music!. if i had my way i would bring a book lol!. its not for everyone!. my suggestion is find a girl closer to home with more of ur traits in common!. your worry and possible jealousy is not good in any relationship!. good huntingWww@QuestionHome@Com

All I can say is to each his own!. If she likes it then let her enjoy it or you will lose her!. How often do you see each other!? Clubbing is a way to meet people but it depends on if you are going there to pick someone up or just to have fun!. I go to have fun and dance!. If a man tries to hit on me, I just smile and say no thanks, I'm taken!. If your gf is faithful she will do the same!. If shes not then shes not worth your time and believe me there are plenty of people in the world!. You will find someone else if you look for them!. Don't listen to these other people who says shes probably cheating on you because they don't know her or your situation they are just being *******!.
As for the alcohol it kinda goes with clubbing even though I have been to teen dances and they were still fun without it!. Alcohol just loosens you up more so you can have more fun!.
I know men who don't like to club and basically they found gf's who like staying home with them instead and they are completely happy with each other!. So chose someone with the same interest as you or give your partner room to be who they are and they will remain faithful!.
Good Luck in all you deside to do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

clubbing!.!.!. its fun, you get drunk, dance, meet people, fun environment!. whats not fun about it!? iv never had fun clubbing without alcohol!. regardless if your with someone or not your gonna get hit on!. long distant relationships rarely work, i bet shes cheating on you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

no you cannot have fun without alcohol, and is it right is it wrong!? who knows!? i guess if you trust her enough than her clubbing all the time should be fine!. however, i do see clubbing as a place to pick people up, and i do assume that people in clubs are single!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

IDK bout clubbin cuz I dnt like it myself but I will go in sit outside but will not go in!.!.!. but wen go I jus go boy shoppin!! LOL!!Www@QuestionHome@Com