Ask a girl to dance with me?

Question: Ask a girl to dance with me!?

I got a high school dance on saturday (informal dance) and I'm kinda shy!. I'm not the type who can just dance around going all spazzo and I really wanna know how to ask a girl to dance because I only confident with like slow dancing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

wait for a slow song to come on or request one u like then go up to the girl u want to dance with, hold out your hand like offering to help her up and say something like "would u dance with me"!? don't take a no personally she may not know how to dance!. if she says yes great if she says no move to another girl and try again!. eventually u will succeed!. it is the best attitude to think u r the only one on the dance floor!. watch the moves the girl is making and follow her lead if u really don't know how to dance the fast stuff!. it doesn't seem to matter what moves u make as long as u move to the music!. go with the attitude of having fun and u will!. if u need ideas or courage to do this, ask ur mom to dance or ur sister!. practice helps!. good luckWww@QuestionHome@Com

I used to be shy as well when I was a kid, but I love dancing- at least some times!. The trick is simple (and has already occurred to you) so all you have to do is convince yourself of this irreputable fact of reality:

WHO GIVES A F*CK WHAT THEY THINK!?

Seriously, don't take yourself seriously when you are dancing!. If someone actually doesn't like how you are dancing!.!. then BIG F*CKING DEAL, right!? Girls don't care if a guy can dance well (definitely doesn't hurt, though) they care if a guy can be comfortable dancing, you get it!?

You're not confident because your a good dancer, you are a good dancer because you're confident in what you are doing!. It's kind of Zen, not giving a sh*t!. Try it sometime!. Www@QuestionHome@Com