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Question: My parents want me to dance but i REALLY do want to but i feel like i dance awful!.!.!.!?
i've been in many dance classes but i always quit them because i think that i suck! but people say that i dance really good [[not trying to brag]] but i just cant belive in myself! but i went to dance class like about 2 weeks ago and i started hearing people say **** behind my back such as that i suck and i should quit!.!. SO I DID! do you think i should keep going or not!? [[my parents support me all the way]]Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Dont listen to those people!.Everyone has to start out somewhere!.Or your never will get anywhere!You know people on dancing with the stars weren't good at all in a point in there lives!.Girl I know you can strut your stuff by the way you sound!.Those girls just think there naturally born with dancing and are better than everyone else!.They just think that you can walk out not knowing anything,and dance like a pro!.No way!I don't even think thats possible!You have to start off somewhere!.Just tell them there immature and dont waste your time thinking about it!
Girl just own that stage!
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I would say don't give up!.

I always beleived that dance was something you did out of joy, because you enjoyed doing it!. You say you enjoy it, then that is enough reason to keep going!. Try asking someone to help, sometimes a peer tutor is the best thing!.

I do traditional Jewish dances and Latin!. I can tell you I'm not nearly as good as I'd like to be!. Dance takes practice to become good, the more you practice, the more it becomes like muscle memory and the better you get!. Some of the best salsa dancers I know have been doing it for years and years!.

It's okay to mess up!. It's okay to suck!. We all sucked at one point, we all were newbies!. You have to be bad before you can be good!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Maybe you should try a different type of dance, try to find something to fit your personality!. I really like modern because you can do almost whatever you want with it!. Even if you did suck, which you probably don't since everyone says you're good, aren't you just in the class to learn and have fun!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

I've been dancing for 18 years now and I still feel like I such every now and then!. My dance teacher has been dancing for!.!.oh!. 36 years, almost, including 10 years that she danced with the NYC Ballet, and she still has days that she feels like she's terrible!. EVERYONE has these days!. I bet you're doing much better than you think!. If you love it, keep at it!


I hate to say it, but!.!.!. ok, if those people had been saying "this girl should jump off a bridge!" would you have done that, too!?!?!? Learn to ignore catty girls, and keep doing what you love!. You do not need them or their opinions- be better than them and show them that you really can dance!Www@QuestionHome@Com

All dance studios have beotches!. Trust me!. Most of the time it is jealousy!. I got better roles than this one girl at my studio, and her mom emailed the studio and made up stories about be!. dancers can be slightly ridiculous sometimes!. so, if people say you dance good, and you love it, i say just ignore them and go for it!. if you want totally honest opinions, post a vid of u dancing on youtube, and ask for comments!. some people will just be mean, but in description, just post what you are looking for, and most people are very honest and gental!. email me the link if u put one up, i am normally honest but gental, so i can give u a good idea, plus i am a dancer at a very good studio, so i can normally tell what is good and bad dancing!.
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but again, just follow your heart!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

keep going and you'll get better and those ppl should shut up bcs im sure their not doing everything perfect!. No one should ever make fun of someone for trying!. Never quit!.!.!.it just shows them girls that your weak!. Which im sure your not!. Give it another chance, maybe somewhere on a lower level where the dancers maybe are worse than you, its a good confidence booster!. Trust me!. Or video tape your best dance and watch it when you feel bad!. :) im sure your awesomeWww@QuestionHome@Com

i did dance for nine years, and i actually miss it now!. when i started high school i quit and started swimming and now i want to go back for college but i have no time and money for it!. if u feel u can do it, go for it!. dont listen to what people are telling you, do what you think you should do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Nonsense! If people say you are then you are!. I've been dancing for seven years!. I am grade 5 point Intemediate foundation, in ballet!. You've just got to beleive in yourself, I know you said you can't but just try!. Think to your-self, I can do it, I am good at dancing, like no other!. Just follow your heart!. And do what you feel is best!.
Remeber you parents will encourage you no matter what you choose!.
Hope you discide!.
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If you think you can stand up tall against those gossip people, you are capable of becoming a good dancer!.
As I say, if you believe in yourself and stand up for it, you are going for your dreams!.
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don't listen to what the other people are saying! dance is supposed to be fun! don't let them ruin it! and sometimes the dance world can get ugly!. they're just jealous so strut your stuff and have fun!



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