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Question: Ladies, ever develop a crush on a gay guy friend!?
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Yes!. I was in college and I had no idea he was gay!. I used to leave little gifts in his locker and deliver roses to his house!. One day I nearly approached him to confess my feelings but changed my mind at the last minute!. I found out after college that he was gay!. And it was just as well I never said anything, because years later we worked together and became really good friends!. I have never told him it was me that left the items and till this day he thinks it is another gay guy we knew at college!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

YES!. And it was BAD!.

I'm not sure whether you're the guy or the girl in this situation, or neither, but I can say that in high school, I developed serious feelings for a guy friend who was gay!. We had a few moments where I think he was trying to confirm or figure out his sexuality, I don't know, but the point is, I ended up making out with him (a big deal for me) and then totally getting my heart broken when he dropped the gay bomb, lol!. I'm okay now, but then it is five years later!. If you're the girl in that kind of situation, be careful!. Just don't get romantically involved with a gay man, honestly, it will end badly!. Guard your heart, and find a straight guy - there are still some good ones out there!. :) If you are the guy, be considerate of the woman's feelings - don't mess with her if you're confused!. And if you're not confused, that's even worse - don't play with a woman, she's not a toy!. Stringing her along is just mean!. Www@QuestionHome@Com