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Question: Are dance classes only ways to meet singles!?
my BF and I live in different states for now due to work!. We've talked many times about taking ballroom dancing but he suddenly decided to go ahead and begin!. If he's going alone, won't it seem that he is there TO meet single women there!? I don't believe he is but I don't think one should get involved in something as intimate as dancing,especially since he knows I am upset about it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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I don't think people just go to dance classes to hook up--but I do think you have every right to be upset at your BF, because it's a little inconsiderate of him to start taking these lessons without you if you'd talked about it before and planned on doing something like this TOGETHER!.

Tell him how you feel, that dancing is intimate, and it's an experience you wanted to go through together!. If he cares about your feelings, he'll stop!. And if he doesn't!.!.!.well think about what that says about how much he regards your feelings, wants and needs!. Just saying, if the class is more important than you, you may need to reconsider him as a BF!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I think ballroom dancing is a great way to meet people and get some exercise at the same time!. However, some people go there to meet people and some people go to practise because they actually want to learn how to dance!. I think the majority are in the latter category!.

If he is aware of your feelings then he should stop or you should join a class and let him know (terrible but it evens things)!. Nevertheless, I think you and your bf need to talk about trust within your long distance relationship!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

There is NO way that dancing is only to meet singles!. Sometimes, people do ballroom dancing for that reason!. But, if that's the reason, please don't even call it dancing!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!.
Dancing is entertainment and should not go beyond that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com