Girls, how do u give a good lapdance? Boys, what do you like in a lapdance?

Question: Girls, how do u give a good lapdance!? Boys, what do you like in a lapdance!?

ok my bf wants me to give him a lapdance and i wanna give him one!. i never given one and he neevrr got one so i need it to be perfect!. i want the lapdance to lead to us making out!. How do i give a good one!? what do they liek in it!? whats a good way to lead it into makingout!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Well!.!.!. if he's never had one then your in luck b/c he wont know what to expect!. Just play in your hair alot, run your fingers along your lingerie (or panties w/e your wearing)!. Do it unexpectedly, use music, dim the lights, make sure you use your fingers to outline your body's curves, be a bad girl, do things you wouldnt normally do, sit on his lap, rub your *** on his dick through his pants, take his shirt off half way through (this way you will feel a little more secure since he's topless too) kiss his neck, suck on his ear!.!.!. be unpredictable!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Well, its hard to be descriptive on Yahoo without offending someone!. The basics: sit him down in a nice, comfortable chair with lots of space (so you can easily get on top of him)!. Preferably be topless, or a top that is very sexy!. Wear a bikini bottom!. Tease him at first!. Tell him that he cannot touch you (until you get on top of him) or get up from the chair!. When you finally get on top of him, breath slowly and heavily into his ear, gently bite his neck!. You should be able to know what to do from there!. I have confidence in you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

dont just give him a lapdance!. give him a SEXY lapdance and im sure he will be begging for more! here's a sexy tip!.

turn off the lights (a candle lit room would be so romantic for the two of you)!. let him sit and watch you as you dance slowly with a very sexy song playin' on the background!. (give him a seductive stare)!. gently sit on his lap and feel the song!. (seduce him with every single moves that you make) run your hands from his head down to his chest and then go!.!.
just always remember that sex is also a form of art!. just be creative and imaginative and im sure the both of you will surely enjoy!.
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Honey if you only want it to end with you two making out why would you need the lapdance in the firstplace!? you can make out at any time !.
And there is no right way to give a lapdance!.
you have to mix it up !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Go to a strip club with some friends and watch a few first!. You ought to have one or two also, so you can get a better idea of what it's like!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

do some of the moves the blonde does!! !.!.!.shes awesome

http://youtube!.com/watch!?v=NEuuSfp2Xi8Www@QuestionHome@Com

well!.!.!.i have never given a lapdance before but!.!.!.!.im sure if u dont knwo te diffrence and he doesnt know the diffrence than im sure u;ll befine!. My friend said it was like griding ecxept ur sitting on his lap!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The music is a big thing!. Do lots of teasing!. Every "professional" lap dance I've ever had has also included the stripper burying my face in her boobs!. Make him sit on his hands too!. That'll kill him!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

well u need to be able to "pop" ur hips!.!.!.watch a couple of belly dancing and take from that only put onto his lapWww@QuestionHome@Com

Just hop around topless while he just sits there!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Start watching porn lol!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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damn when there *** is on my dick and yea when u bend down so they can see ur boobs lapdance king babyWww@QuestionHome@Com

OK, first set the mood!. Dim lighting accented with some candles works ok, or try experimenting with lamps and fabric (just don't start a fire!)!. Pick music you can move well to, something fairly slow with a good strong bass line you can grind to: Prince has some of the best stuff there is for lapdances, but remember to pick a long one!. Put him in a chair with plenty of room, as you'll want to be able to put one or both of your knees in it next to him!. Make him sit on his hands, or just tell him no touching!.
Now, choosing your outfit is very important!. Find something you can strip out of at any pace you need to depending on the music and the mood!. Pants won't work: you'll need something like a short, flirty skirt (not tight but loose and flowing, something you can play with)!. Your top should be deeply cut, loose enough to show even more when you bend over, and very easy to get out of!. If you wear a bra, wear one with a front closure, and practice opening it until you can do it quickly every time!. Unless you just have to wear one, you might consider going without as a timesaver!. Underpants should be no more concealing than a french cut, and a thong is better!. A 'weasel' is even better, but you will want to wax beforehand!. If none of these is an option, see-thru can be a nice touch instead!. Any other clothes should only emphasize how little you're wearing, like garters, garterbelt, thighhighs, high heels!. If you can't confidently dance like this for him in heels (that can take months) you might want to bend over right in front of him (facing away from him can give him an enticing sneekpeek of coming events) as the song is just starting and take them off!.
The lapdance is a tease in two parts: visual and tactile!. Start off dancing in front of him, playing with the skirt a little, giving him a good view but not quite touching him!. Work your way right up to him, and then give him a peek by putting a foot on the chair next to his thigh!. Ideally, this will make your panties briefly visible!. If you're wearing thighhighs and garters, this is a great time to take a stocking off and drape it across him, but only if you can do it without losing too much song time!. If you're flexible enough you can transition to leaning your breasts close enough to graze his face with your nipples before stepping down, else step down, grasp the arms of the chair, and lean into him in a rolling motion, breasts then crotch, moving up from his crotch to his face!. Step back, dance as you turn away from him, kneel and dance on your knees, waving your butt at him in time to the music and stretching forward (don't use too much time with this, it's just a tease) until you're prone face-down, then roll over face-up, sit up and spread your legs!. Play with your breasts, then move your hands down caressing your chest, belly, and inner thigh until you get to the hem of your shirt, and take it off!. Crawl up to him and run your hands across his legs and up his chest, using your cheek to stroke the inside of his thigh!. Turn away from him kneeling, then use his thighs to push yourself up so your butt is right in front of his crotch, then still using your hands on his thighs to help support yourself, lean your butt back and grind it in his lap!. If you think you can balance yourself, lean back while doing this so your head is on his shoulder and he can see your breasts!. Do this for a few bars, until you can tell he got the point, then stand and step away, dancing while you undo your skirt!. For best results, this should be the first time he actually gets to see your butt!. Turn and lose the skirt, step in so one of your legs stroke his inner thigh while you dance, and lean forward supporting yourself with hands on the arms of the chair!. If you have a bra to remove, lean in enough for him to get just an inch or two from the very center of your cleavage, then lean back just enough to take it off!. This looks best when done with one hand under each breast, so as you remove the cups from your breasts you also slide them across your nipples!. If you weren't wearing one, skip the leaning back and just lean in so your breasts are massaging his cheeks!. Obviously you'd want some perfume between them!. Push yourself upright again, dance around in a little half-circle, sit back on his lap and grind for a bit, then step forward, spread your legs, bend over, and stroke your butt with one hand while balancing yourself with the other!.
If you aren't going totally nude, straighten back up, dance back around to face him, straddle him with one knee on each side of him in the chair, and finsh while grinding on him, playing with your hair, and occasionally leaning forward to graze a nipple across his lips!.
If you are going totally nude (RECOMMENDED), go from the standing spead-eagle to sitting, spin around on your butt to face him, lay back and take off your panties with your legs in the air!. Then, spread your legs and caress yourself!. Then get up and straddle him and finish as above!.
You will want to practice this several times with the music (and an enormous teddy bear to torture), and you may choose to use two songs instead of one to give yourself more time, but if he doesn't want to make out when you finish with him, he's probably gay!.
Have fun!Www@QuestionHome@Com