I want to be a pole dancer at the strip or night club?

Question: I want to be a pole dancer at the strip or night club!?

and be a waitress between my dance sets!. Is is possible!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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I know you won't like this answer!. I was planning on not even answering, but I couldn't stop myself

I know an ex-stripper, and she told me she wished someone would have told her no because it is the biggest regret of her life!.

Hun, I was sexually abused as a child and as twisted as it sounds I had to constantly feel sexy, and I often thought about doing crazy things to get attention from guys!. But that isn't going to bring happiness!. Sure, it can bring momentary pleasure!. But real pleasure comes from being desired and liked for WHO YOU ARE not what you look like or what you do!. I am warning you in that line of work, you are going to find sick men pawning you!. I would hate to see someone I love put themselves in that type of environment!. There are sick sick people out there!. Love is beautiful, but raw sex without love is NOTHING!. And even worse than that is being forced!. I am not saying this will happen to you, but you may be opening up yourself for a bad sitaution!.

If you honestly believe being a pole dancer will bring you happiness, then go for it!.

But I would think long and hard if it will really make you happy!. Why are you choosing this!? Is it a love for sexual dance, or is it a desire to be wanted by guys!. If it is latter, you will not find your wish doing that!.

But as for being a waitress between your dance sets, you can do that!. You can achieve whatever you want!. Just make sure you are going after what will really make you happy and not just trying to feel sexy and desired in this cruel world!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes-go to dance class first for a year , basic dance like jazz-then start pole dancing, because you need some experience in dancing and you must be flexiable!. but if you want to work at a strip joint with a good pay you have to ace a dance competition of some sort, because when you auditin to be a stripper you need to have some area of expertise in dancing, do stretches everynight for an hour, it helps a lot, and you can buy portable pole to put in your house for practice, so if you want a good pay, you have to be a good dancer (you can also take pole dancing courses)-pole dancing is freestyle so your gonna have to make it all up on the spot, unless you hav a routine i guess, but its mainly free style9im not a pole dancer but i just know these things about dancing)

go for it :) xoWww@QuestionHome@Com

YOU can do whatever you set your mind to young one! If you wanna work the pole you go ahead and do just that hun!Www@QuestionHome@Com

ew!. don't do that!.
i'm sure there's better jobs out thereWww@QuestionHome@Com