How can i approach girls at dances?

Question: How can i approach girls at dances!?

I enter the dance and i see my friends and other guys dancing with girls!. All the girls my friends dance with approach them and dance with them!. I dance with girls but only when my friend dances with a girl who has a friend and has no one else to dance with so i ask them!. How can i get girls on my own!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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Yeah man!. I know what you mean!. I was pretty shy, but the thing is you got to be confident!. Being confident really is a plus with girls!. also, my guess is socialize alot during dancing!. The more your around people and making them laugh the more likely you are to get a girl!. also, ask your friends for some advice!.!.!. I suggest picking a girl and going for her that one night ;) as opposed to going for 20 girls (although who knows!.!.!. maybe you just are that skilled)!.

also, when you notice a girl is like sitting down by herself thats probably your best time lol!. Talk to her, make her feel comfortable, and be NICE!. Being nice and urbane - but don't be like ridiculously nice!. Tease her a little, make her laugh and she's sure to dance with you :)

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go to a girl without your friend, and start dancing!. HAVE FUN!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You need a sense of humor and confidence!. Even if you aren't that attractive, those things will get you far!. Have confidence in yourself!.!.!. nobody is any better than you!. Any girl would be lucky to be with you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Truthfully lots of girls Prefer to just be be talked to one on one for a while or just straight up askedWww@QuestionHome@Com

You have two feet !? With toes on them !? Well, point your toes toward the girl you want to approach and then move your feet Left, Right, Left, Right, Repeat until you arrive at the girl's location!. That is how you approach a girl!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Man iv done them all the best way is to just go up and ask her if she would like to dance, in a calm way!. Dont panic or she will hesitate and say no thank you or make up a reason not to!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Just go up to them and ask!.!.!. its not like your asking them to marry you and if they say no then there no good anyway!.!.!. its no biggy really!.!.!. in my opinion i think girls would rather have the guy ask or at least me and my friends would!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

ok, well!. first, ya slick the hair!. Then ya act all coolish and smooth!. Then pop the question and hope for a good response!.!.!.!.!. yup!Www@QuestionHome@Com

I'm gonna give you a sideways answer!. 'kay!?

You don't describe yourself, but I want to write this anyway!.
My son was kinda awkward and not very confident, when he was in high school!.

For sure, girls did NOT come on to him!.
When he started to come into his twenties, he was in SHOCK!. He kept calling me about it!. Girls, women were coming on to him like crazy!

Some "boys" aren't that cute or that appealing for a zillion reasons, and VERY OFTEN those are JUST the guys that as they come into manliness, are the most appealing men!.

So take heart!. It may just be a matter of time!. (You see, in a man, it's much more than looks that women like, and confidence and "take-charge" are among those things girls and women like, and most boys don't get that till they're men!)

And to have a kinda mind-spirited laugh about it, most of the big men in high school kinda lose that in their manhood!. They get the feeling of "what happened"!? But they rested on their laurels and didn't develop further into maturity!!!! See what I mean!?

(Girls like shallow things; young women and older women like more meaningful things) also, with guys, again like my son, what're good looks on a hs kid aren't so great on a man!. And what is handsome in a man, doesn't arrive, well, till he's a MAN!.
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you seem like a loser my friend
grow some ballsWww@QuestionHome@Com

smile at them, and if they smile back, go and invite them to dance!. And do not try to impress them with your 'obviously better dance style', that has caused me to leave some guys on the dance floor by themselves, but try to dance With them, and make them feel good, so they will want to dance with you again, and other ladies will want to try you out too!.Www@QuestionHome@Com