Dancing with a guy I like?

Question:OKay, so I have to ballroom dance with a guy i realllyy, reallly like. (he has a girlfriend,if it matters) and i always get reallyy nervous and mess up. and his hand always travels down lower than its supposed to go, down to my lower waist. How can I stop being so nervous?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: OKay, so I have to ballroom dance with a guy i realllyy, reallly like. (he has a girlfriend,if it matters) and i always get reallyy nervous and mess up. and his hand always travels down lower than its supposed to go, down to my lower waist. How can I stop being so nervous?

I agree with Muthu. He has a girlfriend, and yet he's copping a feel. That's just not cool. Dancing with someone who's dating is a slipery slope. It's not cheating, but it can lead to things that are. He's obviously leaning in that direction. I would avoid him.

It seems like all you want is a dance with a guy you have a crush on. That's innocent enough. He's taking it too far. He's taking advantage of the situation to move beyond a dance and into a psudo-makeout session. He obviously doesn't respect you or his girlfriend. This type of guy is just bad news.

You could try talking to him, but it probably wont do much good. He may even get angry or vengeful. I say this because I don't feel he respects you or your feelings. It's your body and you deserve to feel comfortable.

Find a guy who likes you, for you and only you. You deserve someone special.

Best of luck in life and love. :-)

if I were you, I would try to avoid the guy if he is not being very gentlemanly. That says a lot about a guy and I would drop him like a lead balloon. sorry, but don't let people break your heart.

tell him how u feel we men like that.