Grinding and lots..?

Question:hey ya im going clubbing with my female friend on thursday.. ive never set foot in a club/disco before. That means i have a problem with dancing, u know im afraid of looking like an idiot.. i tried dancing in my room but it like i have no creativity on how to dance!!!
Also i m not really a drinker....they say that once u drink a lot, the low self confidence problem will be gone, but how...i m not into drinking!!!
Ever heard of grinding.....does it happen in most places now??
Oh god...what do i do?? I really really wanna get over my shyness!!! What do pple usually do when Clubbing??
Do people usually stare at other people dancing???

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: hey ya im going clubbing with my female friend on thursday.. ive never set foot in a club/disco before. That means i have a problem with dancing, u know im afraid of looking like an idiot.. i tried dancing in my room but it like i have no creativity on how to dance!!!
Also i m not really a drinker....they say that once u drink a lot, the low self confidence problem will be gone, but how...i m not into drinking!!!
Ever heard of grinding.....does it happen in most places now??
Oh god...what do i do?? I really really wanna get over my shyness!!! What do pple usually do when Clubbing??
Do people usually stare at other people dancing???

Yea, people usually grind at clubs, but once you're there you kinda let go and just dance;
Basically just dance with your friends and sometimes a guy will come up behind you and put his hands on your hips or waist and then just move your body with his, and you can put your hands on his or your thighs.
And if you want to stop dancing with a guy but he keeps dancing just take his hands off you but like nicley and he'll get the hint.
The people who usually stare at ohter people dancing are the people who stand near a wall cuz they cant dance.
Hope I helped a bit.

DANCE LIKE NO ONE IS WATCHING!

umm if you're that shy then clubbing probably isn't the best idea for you

It all comes natural.
Once you step to the dance floor with a guy, you move your hips to the beat and that's it.
Slow can be sexy with a upbeat tempo. Try that for starters.