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Question:look im a sucker at dancing, ok i am shy to dance, i have never done before. Recently boyfriend and i split up, all i want is to go clubbing with this friend of mine who loveees to club!!!
I dunno...is there like a technique on how to dance?? Really i've never done it in my whole life....Really don't have confidence...

ANDANDAND PLS GIMME SOME SWEET WORDS TO MAKE my day...can't yet get over my breakup...


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: look im a sucker at dancing, ok i am shy to dance, i have never done before. Recently boyfriend and i split up, all i want is to go clubbing with this friend of mine who loveees to club!!!
I dunno...is there like a technique on how to dance?? Really i've never done it in my whole life....Really don't have confidence...

ANDANDAND PLS GIMME SOME SWEET WORDS TO MAKE my day...can't yet get over my breakup...

hey so sorry bout the break up! =[ ok so i really cant dance but im a cheerleader [kinda akward] but all i do is jump up and down [not like a psyco though [sp?] and when a boom or a clap or whatev come I just shake my hip/s left/right but i think the easiest is partner dancing because the other person will guide u through it so u certainly cant mess up =]]]]]] again so sorry about the break up gurrlie! ??xoxo?? hope u have the bestest time!!! and good luck ; ) oh and dont ever bring yourself down by saying ur a sucker just keep ur head up and b the best u can ever b! proove ur stupid boy friend that u dont need him and u can live a great life without him cuz ur sooo awesome!
peace out gurrlieee!!

well just listen to the music and let your body go, dont be too frigid and when in doubt look at other people and dance like them... anyways have a ton of fun, i love to club too and im a super great dancer

The simple part is rocking... just step side to side.
Then add syncopation... rock-back-rock on some of the beats. Like left, right, leftrightleft, right, left, rightleftright.
Arch your back a bit, so your balance is forward and you're showing off your back (side). A little easier if you slide your hands down to your knees, but you don't want to stay like that all the time or you look like you hurt your back (and you probably will).
Add in some sexy arm motions, waving back and forth, swaying like a ribbon in the wind, brushing your hands over your body, and they'll be all over you.
It helps a /lot/ to be familiar with the music, so when they say, "I am getting so hot, I wanna take my clothes off" you're all ready to wipe your forehead or pretend to strip, and you're moving your hips when they say, "shake your body like a belly dancer". So listen to pop or hip-hop stations a bunch.

... to be honest, while there are some things you can do to enhance your natural beauty, we guys are just happy to see you show up in the first place. Usually we'll be working to catch your eye (heart? room key?) rather than vice versa.

Good luck, and stay tasty!

Hello,,
I cant dance either but if I have 6 or more bourbons that confidence problem is gone and the dance floor is mine.
Don't worry about what other people think of you,,just have fun!!