Is getting a lap dance at a strip club cheating?

Question:Well, I don't know, but the first thing I'd ask myself if I had a loving girlfriend/wife is "why the f*ck would I wanna go to a strip club to watch a sl*t dance?" or even worse get a lap dance from her?

There are certain things I wouldn't do if I was involved with someone, even if they aren't considered cheating.

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Well, I don't know, but the first thing I'd ask myself if I had a loving girlfriend/wife is "why the f*ck would I wanna go to a strip club to watch a sl*t dance?" or even worse get a lap dance from her?

There are certain things I wouldn't do if I was involved with someone, even if they aren't considered cheating.

just frustrating.

If you were my SO/BF/SPOUSE, then yes.

depends...if ur trying to get more than just a lap dance ;)

according to me it is

well imagine your wife/GF grinding on a male stripper, how's that make you feel?

I won't mind as long as you are there for a Bachalers party...You are there to have fun! =]

if your in a relationship and at a strip club.. Thats a No No in my book..... lol

Yes.It is totally cheating.

No,

But if you have a girlfriend or wife, you can probably get more for less money. :-) Strippers are experts at collecting money for leaving you high but usually dry. ;-)

As for me, I date the kind of women who would go to a strip club with me if we want to have some extra fun. Frankly, I find most of them boring to death - stripper girls typically can't dance good enough for me to enjoy it. All you need is willingness to strip. It's different for male strippers. If you ever go to a mixed strip club, you'll notice a big difference.

I only tip good stage dancers. No girl will be allowed to give me a lap dance unless I saw her perform on stage and enjoyed it, that's my rule. I don't care if she looks stunning hot.

Cheating? No. But if you are there without her and it's not "that time" of the month or she's not away, your relationship may need to be re-evaluated.

By the way, feature entertainers tend to be a lot more fun.

Depends how it ends.

Well..if the girl is very jealous easily yes,but if u trust each other and tell one another what happened and not keep it on the down low than things should be cool