I went to a stripclub with my boyfriend...and I was wondering about something th

Question:I got really drunk and my boyfriend bought me a lapdance. Well the girl went beyond dancing with me, she started kissing me and took my breasts out of my shirt and and started sucking on my nipples. Then she got my boyfriend closer and made him suck on one while she did another. She tried to finger me but he stopped her. This went on for a long time. Is this proper ettiquite? Do they do this to men? We were full on making out for like thirty minutes.
This really did happen, I am just confused. I have never had any sort of sexual anything with a female. I like men. It's not a fantasy. My boyfriend was in shock about or so I think. Is this normal behavior?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I got really drunk and my boyfriend bought me a lapdance. Well the girl went beyond dancing with me, she started kissing me and took my breasts out of my shirt and and started sucking on my nipples. Then she got my boyfriend closer and made him suck on one while she did another. She tried to finger me but he stopped her. This went on for a long time. Is this proper ettiquite? Do they do this to men? We were full on making out for like thirty minutes.
This really did happen, I am just confused. I have never had any sort of sexual anything with a female. I like men. It's not a fantasy. My boyfriend was in shock about or so I think. Is this normal behavior?

I don't know how much you like this guy but this must tell you something about hime, and if you got so drunk that you let it happen perhaps the problem is yours to, don't drink so much and you may not get in positions like this.

Normal behavior for what? Drunken **** who think so little of their lady they think this is a good time? Normal for a woman who has pride in this relatonship? Normal for strippers - of course - normal is anything that pays the bills. Yes we do it with men, women, men and women - grow up little girl.

Girls there can be wild. I have had some slutty **** go down. I hate strip clubs now though. I grew up/

may be she wanted your boy friend to get sexually excited......in a place like stripclub u cant expect things to go on normally and decently
you should always think before you do something!
take care
love & luck

reena

First of all, STOP GOING TO THE STRIP CLUBS WITH YOUR BOY FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Plus, if he's REALLY your boy friend - then he shouldn't be going either.

Most strippers are bisexual. trhis has happened to me before to....
She wanted you bf to get excited and spend more money getting more dances.
and no, they dont always do this.
Actaully this happens more to girl clients rather than boy clients. They have to deal with disgusting pervs all night...so getting a girl is a relief lol. No all strippers are sluts or do this. I never did anything like this. Neither did any of the girls I worked with, except for the prostitutes who were giving hand jobs and BJ's in VIP (which they were fired after being caught)

It kinda depends on the strip club... but this doesn't sound normal at all really. Usually a lap dance means they kinda take off their clothes and they might just kiss around on your neck and lips, but CERTAINLY not fingering you. I can't believe this girl that!!! Mostly what I've heard is, they will do more according to how much you pay. If you pay for just a lap dance, thats what you get, but if you pay them more, they might touch more if you catch my drift. Men usually get caught up in the moment and start giving them more money as they go so they will do more and more to them. I've never heard of the girl on girl action. That is weird, but today's world is certainly moving at a crazier rate than I can keep up with! Do some research and ask people that may have gone to that bar and see if thats what happened to them too. If you felt it was completely out of line... talk to the manager of the bar or file a harrasment file.

You seem as if you were uncomfortable in that situation? Your b/f doesn't seem that respectful either, thats just my opinion. If he had more respect for you he wouldn't have let someone do that to you in public (I'm sure there were other men watching).

That is definitely not "normal" since strippers usually take off their clothes while doing a lap dance. What happened to you could be considered sexual harassment/molestation if you were uncomfortable with it.

They probably don't do that to men except for in back rooms (which is illegal in a lot of places).

You should go out drinking/clubbing with someone who is going to look out for you and be respectful of your body! Be careful :)

Nice fictional, short story but you forgot to include how much you tipped her... or do the strippers in this club not work for money but do it just to meet hot chicks like you?

I've (stupidly) been to clubs where similar things have happened, but that's totally beyond. Sometimes, they'll grab a girl and pull up her shirt, which I always thought was super retarded. The fingering thing is DEFINATELY unwarranted, but it seems to happen. We took a guy friend once and his girlfriend and the stripper ended up going down on each other. I was like, be serious.
As far as your boyfriend, if you allowed it to happen or acted like you enjoyed it, he may have read it all wrong. But fi you were like WTF, its all uncalled for. I would've seriously punched her in the face.