How do i dance?? parties, clubbing, etc?

Question:we had this dance about 3 weeks ago. it was the first time i wasn't drunk or intoxicated w/ alchohol while dancing, i think i used to have to drink just to dance, it was in clubs too..

yeah, so, after i danced about 3 weeks ago, i realized that i really look bad while trying to dance.. i had fun, don't get me wrong.

the thing is, if i go clubbing or a party, i need to at least know what to do so that people won't give me those weird stares and all that.. i mean, i don't want to look bad in front of chicks right?

so yeah, please help me.. videos would help a lot... it doesn't have to be too extreme, just enough to slip ya know?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: we had this dance about 3 weeks ago. it was the first time i wasn't drunk or intoxicated w/ alchohol while dancing, i think i used to have to drink just to dance, it was in clubs too..

yeah, so, after i danced about 3 weeks ago, i realized that i really look bad while trying to dance.. i had fun, don't get me wrong.

the thing is, if i go clubbing or a party, i need to at least know what to do so that people won't give me those weird stares and all that.. i mean, i don't want to look bad in front of chicks right?

so yeah, please help me.. videos would help a lot... it doesn't have to be too extreme, just enough to slip ya know?

.Actually, you may dance better when drinking...it loosens inhibitions. Some people drink a SMALL amount when practicing new languages for the same reason. Many classic writers and artists were drug users but, it's a two edge swords. It may serve your immediate purpose while insidiously enslaving you. What about actual dance lessons?? Even if they're not lessons for the type of dancing you like, they may help you get the attitude of dancing. And how about getting a female friend to assist you? You could do something for her in exchange. I absolutely love to dance, to me it's almost a spiritual thing...free-ing , therapeutic, heavenly. Put your music on at home and dance...not for a partner, not for an audience.... for you. If you can reach the point of actually getting the joy of dancing, you're well on your way. Step on out there...go man!

breakdancing is the way to go!
you gotta check out this site. its kinda new, but its constantly being updated with new tutorials on how to do moves.