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Question:On Halloween, me and my friend went to a party and this kid was dancing really badly to Soulja Boy. He thinks he's really good and he was doing all these dances. Me and my friend were laughing because it was really funny and then he started screaming wildly at us. Even though he's a year younger, he's quite large, and taller then us. He seems the violent type so we were saying he was going to try to kill us. At first, it was a joke, but now we're terrified of him.
At our school we're having this dumb dance where you have to have a dance card with peoples names on them and you HAVE to dance with those people. So today when we were looking at the 7th grade's cards, we saw on his card that he picked both of us. We HAVE to dance with him, or else we get kicked out of the dance, and we're absolutely terrified of him. We also don't know why he would ask us to dance because he literally hates us and we either think he wants to unjure us or insult our horrid dancing skills. What should we do?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: On Halloween, me and my friend went to a party and this kid was dancing really badly to Soulja Boy. He thinks he's really good and he was doing all these dances. Me and my friend were laughing because it was really funny and then he started screaming wildly at us. Even though he's a year younger, he's quite large, and taller then us. He seems the violent type so we were saying he was going to try to kill us. At first, it was a joke, but now we're terrified of him.
At our school we're having this dumb dance where you have to have a dance card with peoples names on them and you HAVE to dance with those people. So today when we were looking at the 7th grade's cards, we saw on his card that he picked both of us. We HAVE to dance with him, or else we get kicked out of the dance, and we're absolutely terrified of him. We also don't know why he would ask us to dance because he literally hates us and we either think he wants to unjure us or insult our horrid dancing skills. What should we do?

dont worry gese write his name on paper and if he killes you they know : Blank Blank Killed me if you read this after im dead at the dance

You need to talk to a guidance counselor and tell them you dont want to dance with this guy and its not fair to HAVE to or be kicked out.

deal with it. If u get a chance, apologize to him for laughing. Then, after u guys dance with him, there will be no more need to talk to him.

just do the dance and deal with what comes your way, be professional about the situation

He'd be a complete moron to try and injure you guys at the dance. Maybe in some sick way he likes you guys and wants to impress you by showing off some better moves.

Maybe you won't laugh at him this time...he's been practicing since then.

well if thats true, report it, have someone close to you that could defend you, such as teacher, or some dude that could check him. but reporting it would cover your own ***, so i would do that, cuz if a fight breaks out, they a head of time know its not your fault. preach!

go... tell someone, where is he ganna beat you up at school?? and if he does then he can get kicked out of school and he WONT bother you again, i reallllyyy dont think he will, but if your wayy to terrified of him dont go. but i think you should tell someone so nothing will ever happen.

GOOD LUCKK!!

well he obviously picked you guys to either start some more awkwardness or end your dispute. Im sure he doesnt want to litterly kill you. I think you should talk to him, tell him that you thought he hated you and dont understand why he would want to dance with you. Then you will get your answer. He probably wants you to apologize to him because he might feel really bad or embarrased that you were laughing at him. He probably thought he was being really cool and you are older so he must feel really insulted. Try apologizing, say you were only laughing for fun and games and didnt realize he would take it so seriously and that he's actually pretty okay at dancing, or, if you dont want to lie, that you've never seen anyone so creative with the soulja boy on the dance floor...
Good luck, hope it works out for ya!

well, chances are, he likes you...maybe he doesnt want to hurt you lol but, if you are really uncomfortable, explain it to one of the adults at the dance....tell them you really aren't comfortable around him and that he has been rude and you think he might try to hurt you...don't worry, they will not think u r dumb or anything, they will understand...and if they don't do anything to help you, you could tell ur parents or you could just skip this dance and wait for the next one...there is nothing saying that you HAVE to go...well good luck...dont be scared