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Question:What is her deal? My ballet teacher *Alyssa* was ignoring me and being all mean to me today. She's never like that to me. I never did anything to her. I'm just the quiet one! IDK why she's like that just to me. I'll give you some things about her:
She's really skinny and tall and really funny. But sometimes she's really sensitive and could snap at any moment.Everyone says that I'm her favorite, but today, I'm not sure. She only gave me 1 correction and ignored me when she usually gives me 8 corrections and is nice to me. Corrections are good, BTW.Here are some things about me: I'm quiet,13,awkwardish(like any 13er),and I like being a good friend. Please tell me why you think she's being a little outtaline.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: What is her deal? My ballet teacher *Alyssa* was ignoring me and being all mean to me today. She's never like that to me. I never did anything to her. I'm just the quiet one! IDK why she's like that just to me. I'll give you some things about her:
She's really skinny and tall and really funny. But sometimes she's really sensitive and could snap at any moment.Everyone says that I'm her favorite, but today, I'm not sure. She only gave me 1 correction and ignored me when she usually gives me 8 corrections and is nice to me. Corrections are good, BTW.Here are some things about me: I'm quiet,13,awkwardish(like any 13er),and I like being a good friend. Please tell me why you think she's being a little outtaline.

She could have had a bad mood that day you never know.
I'm sure she'll be back to normal in no time at all, don't take it too seriously. Grown-ups are weird.
Just treat her the same as before. :)

How old is Alyssa? She may be PMSing (I'm sure you know what that is by now...) As you said, she sensitive, so she may just be feeling a bit crabby today. If this continues, ask her, because it's not fair for anyone to be ignored. Calmly ask her if everything's been alright, maybe there's something going on at home.

People have different ways of dealing with things. Some people lash out at others, some bottle up their feelings.

She may have bipolar disorder, like most American women. Or she may be taking advantage of you because she thinks your shyness = weakness. Most people show disdain for the weak. It is just a natural human reaction. Or maybe her eyeballs just need exercising. So the next time she rolls her eyeballs, you should give her a hand by pulling on them hard.