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Question:Ok If I want to dance with a boy in my class at a dance how do I ask? I dont want to sound flirty, more friendly because I only want to be friends ( unless he likes me). But how do I ask like that?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Ok If I want to dance with a boy in my class at a dance how do I ask? I dont want to sound flirty, more friendly because I only want to be friends ( unless he likes me). But how do I ask like that?

Okay so be simple. Ask them straight foward and be confident. I think if you ask in a shy way they'll think you're like that because you like them.

If you want to come off as just a friend, just be yourself and it won't be awkward. Be fun with it, like your just looking to have a good time, nothing more.

Ask by saying things like "I want to dance. Dance with me?"
Smile and be playful. Most guys wouldn't be intimidated and would just be willing to have a good time.

Just be simple and get straight to the point.

'Can we dance as friends?'

Good Luck :)

[You should also post this question in the Singles and Dating/Friends categories, I think they could help you more]

Simply say, "do you wanna dance with me?" Guys will usually appreciate not having to ask all the time. Just go for it.