Should i let MY BF go to the dance (WHERE I ANT GOING TO B )?

Question:he asked me if i would let him go )should i
yes i would feel kinda jeoles

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yes i would feel kinda jeoles

first of, don't use let (him or you). though you're bf and gf, you don't own each other. talk to him about it, tell him that though you trust him (you do right?) you would feel a little jealous. i would tell him that if he wants to go, then sure, go ahead and have a good time. but honestly, how much fun would a dance be with out his girlfriend?

you should trust him. or if you have a friend going you could get her to just check up on him and make sure he's being "faithful"
p.s I'm not a creepy white guy like my avatar(think that's what they are called) my friend made him

Well, this is where you have to think about the level of trust in your relationship. Are you confident that he won't cheat on you there? If he promises you that he won't dance with other girls, will you believe him? Trusting other people is a big part of any relationship. If you think that he won't cheat, then let him go. If you have lots of doubts, well, don't let him, but also take a look your relationship. If you can't trust the person you're dating, it's going to be a problem eventually...

Hope this helps!

No, why does he want to go if you aren't there to dance with anyway? I smell trouble.

yeah, so your bf would be HAPPY!!!!

If you trust him, let him go. If he is trustworthy he will not disappoint you. If he decides to cheat he isn't worth being jealous over.

why aren't you going?

Perhaps you can figure this out if the question is rephrased. You have two choices: (1) He can go, and you can be suspicious and jealous, showing your immaturity and insecurity, or (2) He can stay away and be resentful, while you're enjoying a false sense of security as you've shown him you're a controlling witch he needs to really worry about being involved with. It seems to me your choice is pretty obvious, and the question really shouldn't have come up in the first place.

No, are you crazy?
Now, you gotta know by now what happens........