Is it ok for a married woman to go out dancing witha nother man?

Question:Since the husband doesn't like to dance would be ok to find a man just to dance with? or is it crossing deadly waters?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Since the husband doesn't like to dance would be ok to find a man just to dance with? or is it crossing deadly waters?

Well dancers have partners and they don't have to be their spouses. Unless you have other motives, it should be totally fine.

I would consider it unwise, it opens the door to the development of an adulterous relationship.

This is something to bring up with the husband. Just float it casually, if he's not comfortable, then don't. If he says "Sure, fine." then have fun.

Depends on the type of music.

Are we talking classy dancing?

Or bump and grind rubbing all your junk on eachother's knee-cap.

well if he said ''sure go its ok with me'' he's lying, well just think about it how would you feel if he went and danced with another lady other than you would it be ok or not? but i think he would mind

It's done a lot more often than you might think. On the other hand, it may be safer, like Caesar's wife, to avoid even the appearance of impropriety. A lot of ladies go in groups or stick to venues that are essentially group activities. I dance with a lot of married ladies whose husbands either don't dance or do so reluctantly, and I find they don't mind if everybody has a little sensitivity about the situation.

just make sure that the other man is a close friend and don't go out every night- just once and a while. Don't go bar hoping and getting drunk and dancing with stangers. But you probably knew that huh?

not alone. if he likes to play tennis and you don't how would you feel if he went to play tennis with a lady friend?
if you're going together (you and hubby along with friends and he's ok with it then sure go for it or if your other man friend is gay then your hubby may be okay with it) I agree it also depends on what kind of dance, I wouldn't slow dance with another guy or get freaky on the floor. That's should really be reserved for your husband. If you're into ballroom or swing and need a partner then that could be okay but remember, women usually swoon in the arms of a great male dancer... so be sure you know yourself and your emotions.

If you really love to dance that much talk it over with hubby and tell him how much dancing means to you and ask him what would he be comfortable with - might be nice to mention that you would love to dance with him if he would give it a try maybe once a month with ya.

Good luck!

Well, I guess when you asked this question, you are not just looking for a dance. You might looking way forward than what you asked.

Be clear to what you want, also be clear when you communicate with your husband. You will find the answer by your own.

Trust me, you would prefer the person you dance with is your hubby than another guys out there. You might not knowing now, but you will find out later. :P