I am a 37 year-old guy who has suffered a great deal with women in the past beca

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I am a 37 year-old guy who has suffered a great deal with women in the past because I do not know how to dance

On those rare occasions that I go to nightclubs I just stand around with a drink in my hand. It would be so much easier to connect to women if I could ask them to dance. The problem is that most "dance schools" don't teach practical dancing that is used in clubs. They teach obscure, archaic stuff like ballroom dancing, cha-cha, etc. Where do I learn those hip dances that are used in the real world?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I'm serious about this...

Rent or buy the movie "Hitch" with Will Smith.
Observe the simple but attractive dance he teaches to his client.
It is easy to learn and appropriate for all situations, especially nightclubs. Practice at home in front of a mirror.

Don't try to be fancy. Don't worry about how you look or you'll tense up and it will show. Relax and enjoy when you dance. Have a good time.

Now, go get the movie. Don't wait until tomorrow.

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