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How can i get over my fear of slowdancing?

i can dance with no problem at all but when it comes to slow dancing its hard. i think the fact that guys have to touch me in the love handle reigon that freaks me out! our homecoming is in 2 weeks and i want to get over my fear of slow dancing. just this morning i tried to have some of my friends help me im fine when they dont touch me there but how can i get more comfertable with people touching me especially the guys?!! and how can i be comfertable through a whole song? can u please give me some answers and tips on how i can get over this fear!? thank you


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I had the same fear in high school. I didn't want guys touching me on my "love handles" In truth? I don't think the guys are giving it as much thought as we girl do. Get some confidence in yourself! When you exude confidence, it doesn't matter if you have some extra side baggage. If you are still worried, try doing some crunches that help your sides. If you do it religiously every day for 2 weeks, it might feel a little firmer. Good Luck!