When you grind (dance) how hard do you grind on the boy??

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When you grind (dance) how hard do you grind on the boy??

I had a party recently and this boy asked me to dance but I didnt want to beause I didnt want to look stupid and I didnt know how hard to grind so I didnt hurt him. PLEASE DONT TELL ME THAT GRINDING IS DISGUSTING ETC. i just want an answer thanks

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5 months ago
and also does anyone know of any clips that I can see of grinding (good ones) so that I can see how its done please

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: 5 months ago
and also does anyone know of any clips that I can see of grinding (good ones) so that I can see how its done please