Boundaries we all set them to protect ourselves.?

Question:

Boundaries we all set them to protect ourselves.?

They are mental, emotional, or physical that define or limit the area in which one is willing to be present. Can they be used also to hurt us in someway??In the sense of our growth as Human beings give me some good examples in your own life good or bad thanks :))

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Boundaries, as you describe then, are only necessary if one believes that they can or will be hurt.

You cannot hurt me. I will never personalize anything that you do to me.

I propose that boundaries are issues of responsibility. What is my responsibility and what is your responsibility. Boundaries emerge to allow others to take care of themselves and the "I" to take care of the self.