How does one become "a man among males" ?

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How does one become "a man among males" ?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Become a leader. Learn to make yourself respected, respect yourself, "act like a king to be treated like one"(1). Don't do things that are debasing, low or mediocre, always do excellent, glorious things.

Develop good taste, if you want others to respect you, you need to show good judgement in things related to fashion, art, music. You better listen to classical music, go to the opera, go to theatre, and watch the best cinema (visit http://rogerebert.suntimes.com/)... and read the best literature, begin to read shakespeare, read the history of art.

A brave personality is essential, don't be afraid of facing your enemy. You could learn a martial art like boxing or judo, I recommend both to make yourself more confident in your capacity to defend yourself. Also learn to debate your enemies and win every argument, don't let them intimidate you with their intelligence.

And last, learn to discuss any issue with anyone, make sure you do it with quality arguments and not with anger, for that you can read philosophy and join internet forums. I recommend forums on philosophy, politics, religion, law, ethics and economics.
Also learn public speaking and join toastmasters.