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Can you go through your life like this?

I'm vietnamese and I guess men in my culture are such in a rush to get married without even getting to know the person, its not even them being in love. It's just more of a partnership in life. Just needing someone just because they need a wife or a husband and don't want to be alone.
I'm definitely not like that. But I do know some people got through their whole lives searching for true love yet can not find it. I was browsing through questions yesterday on here and in someone's opinion so many people do not end up with their one true real love in life. How is that possible, how do you fall deeply in love with someone and be able to spend your life with someone else? Wouldn't it feel wrong?
I heard a man tell his story that his love from college, he still feels everything for her and has never felt what he has felt for her for anyone. never the same and no one makes him feel like she does. They did not end up together but he has a family and a wife.

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1 week ago
How do you spend your life to someone, commit to someone even though deep down you know, they will never be like that one true real love person you couldn't be with?
wouldn't that no be fair to the other person (your current spouse for example)

1 week ago
He has come but it hasn;t been right for us yet.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: 1 week ago
How do you spend your life to someone, commit to someone even though deep down you know, they will never be like that one true real love person you couldn't be with?
wouldn't that no be fair to the other person (your current spouse for example)