When will I even learn what people really mean when they say thing to me?

Question:

When will I even learn what people really mean when they say thing to me?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: the day you learn how to read minds and maybe not even then.each person is different and you may only think you know what that person is talking about , but there may be some slight differences in what they mean and what you understand from what they say and this is from people who want you to understand them, it's worse with people who don't want you to understand what they mean or deliberately want you to understand or assume something else.meaning of words are shaded by people's personal experiences and for this reason may differ from person to person,
so go figure.
God bless,
gabe