Future .. every second counts?

Question:

Future .. every second counts?

some people say that they met a "significant other" by meeting that person at a certain time at a place and was also never planned and was never unexpected. From this, you and your"significant other can possibally for EXAMPLE: marry.
However, if you didnt meet that peson in the first place and decided to go somewhere else you couldve still be single or doing other things for your future/career. So how can i make the best out of my future and make every second count. How would i make the best of life?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Stop perseverating on causality and make decisions that are ethical, logical, and move closer to your defined life goals.