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There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find ways in which have changed?

Have you ever gone back to place in your life that remained exactly the same but you yourself have altered???


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: this is an excellent question my friend!
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Well philosophically, the changes we mostly undergo in Life are relevant to our current environment(situation or routine).. therefor we dont even know ourselves weve changed. only & if only a change of setting takes place that we'd notice such transformation.
When i left the Philippines 5 years ago, im so much of an anti-social(very much a loner). My parents often hug me but i never liked it., but i do spend time with them & some few friends(who made the first move 2 get 2 know me). But my Job here in Bermuda as a waiter obliged me to change my way of dealing people. Gradually i learned to adapt with my 2nd home. My jpb is mainly service & Tourism, subtly i didnt notice that ive become friendlier & more tolerant of others(due to the variety of people i meet on the day 2 day basis)... i was surprised when i went back home. Just when i landed off the plane, i was the one who strike conversation with the next person inline on the immigration. i have never done it in the past...
So when i saw my family waiting for me when i got out of the airport..i gave them the warmest bear hugs i can give..
only this time, i initiated it. & it felt good that somehow, being away ironically changed me for the better.
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