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I just "cheated" on my boyfriend-?

Tell me what you think:

I've just "cheated" on my boyfriend, but I do not feel bad. I do not feel "wrong" or guilty or unhappy in any way. I'm actually quite happy with my actions.

I feel happy that I have expressed my love for another. I feel that I can love many people intimately, individually, simultaneously. That is, I can and I have.
Now, I love my boyfriend. I love Luke. And, I love another. I love Alan. I love both relationships, both love experiences. I am happy loving them both, simutaneously.
This is why in terms of my beliefs:
If love is eternal,
if love is limitless,
if love is freedom,
if love is life itself,
then there isn't much room for obligation, restriction, marriage, promise, etc. Cheating isn't even "wrong" because it is an expression of freedom, of love.

Now, I have not worried, lied, or hurt anyone. What is your view on this? Sometimes I think people do not believe these things can happen.

WHAT DO YOU THINK (in general)?
I need feedback from the world

Additional Details

5 days ago
PS- Alan is his brother.

5 days ago
I treat both relationships as sacred. We are all of God, and are all One. I feel we can express our Oneness many ways and with many people.

5 days ago
There is no sharing. Love is giving. They both are free to make their choices, as well. Alan had a "girlfriend" that he also loves.
I am not jealous. There is nothing they are doing that I don't want to that I want to do.

I am not their keeper. I am not their guardian.
They know this.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: 5 days ago
PS- Alan is his brother.