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If I am too tired to play stupid head games then why can't I just expect honesty and truth from others?

instead of mind games and deceit? Do you find that lots of other people are really willing to play all kinds of games with you in life and what makes them do that? Is it because they are just so insecure and immature that they have to be so rude that they are just so willing to ruin someones questions just for the fun of it? What about you? Do you do that to people?

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4 days ago
"I have been nothing but honest with you. It is you who have still not told me what the hell it is that I have supposedly done..."

I have no crystal balls, let your own conscious be your guide that is something that only you know and you do know if you have done anything or not even if I don't, and if you haven't then perhaps it is false guilt that you are feeling? I have never directly said that you have done anything, I don't know? I have no crystal balls and there is some things that I just do not know enough about yet, I am not judging you just because you took it that way? I am sorry that you feel that way.

4 days ago
"When I was a child I was molested. I couldn't talk about what happened to me until I was 25 years old..of course, I was not believed. So, it has made me a crusader for the truth."

Sorry this was done to you, I just want to ask do you think talking about it really made things better for you? Did it change anything that happened then? Did it make it so that those that did this to you were put through what you were put through because of this?

I want to say that telling never made things better for me, in reality it made those that were in the business of getting others to tell it so they could get paid praise me for telling it. What was done to me was done, that didn't go away or change and perhaps my ideas about how bad I felt because of it was fed by that system? So that they could fix me? Although nothing was ever done to those that did it to me to fix them. They were not put through what I have been put through in life because of it. They were not tortured.

4 days ago
I survived, should I die for that?

4 days ago
"I can only get tired of "head games" if I decide to be a participant of those games. I am free to take what I want, or need, and leave the rest. When I respond to these individuals, or take all that is said personally, I have voluntarily allowed myself to be a victim. If you don't like a certain game than don't play, its that simple. "

Do you even have any idea what all is said? Some of it is pretty nasty, pretty much lies, and pretty much not what I would like others in the public to think about me or think about those I am associated with. The only way you can leave the rest sometimes is to delete it when it is such utter nonsense or blatant garbage, so the fact is that's the point, I have to try to delete what I can if I want to or not, but why do ignorant and jealous people have to do this in the first place? Why, what am I doing to them to make them do it? Why are they so jealous of me, or so ready to parody me in some wrong and dishonest way?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: 4 days ago
"I have been nothing but honest with you. It is you who have still not told me what the hell it is that I have supposedly done..."

I have no crystal balls, let your own conscious be your guide that is something that only you know and you do know if you have done anything or not even if I don't, and if you haven't then perhaps it is false guilt that you are feeling? I have never directly said that you have done anything, I don't know? I have no crystal balls and there is some things that I just do not know enough about yet, I am not judging you just because you took it that way? I am sorry that you feel that way.