Are you seeking to be HAPPY or AT PEACE?

Question:

Are you seeking to be HAPPY or AT PEACE?

I find that happiness comes-and-goes; trying to attain a peaceful state-of-mind around people in tirades is another issue!
if you are seeking peace, how do you pursue it and keep it?

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3 days ago
I really need some advice on this; as my life is like a roller-coaster right now; one minute fine; the next minute, OTHERS are finding things to NIK-PICK at!
thanks in advance for your answers & help!

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: 3 days ago
I really need some advice on this; as my life is like a roller-coaster right now; one minute fine; the next minute, OTHERS are finding things to NIK-PICK at!
thanks in advance for your answers & help!