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Plz answer this only if u understand how I am feeling. I am feeling hurt. dont ask me to clear the air.?

I hv a frnd who didnt care for me as much as I cared for her. She knows I love talking to her but she always showed me like she is busy and its hard for her to talk to me but still she used to talk and it made me feel like a burden on her.
I was always there in her time of need but I rarely found her when I needed her.
I was hurt by all this so 1 day I told her that its not necessary to talk daily and she agreed after that I stopped texting her suddenly.
Till now she didnt ask me, y? She knows something is wrong but she didnt ask me what? Today she told me that I can text her at anytime and its not a prob for her to talk to me.
There was a time when she used to find difficult talking to me and nw she asked me to msg her whenevr I want to.
What do u think is she bothered by my avoiding attitude? Does she started missing me? Idont want to lose her. I feel bad ignoring her. Do u think she got it that i have some prob by her. How can I hint her that I am hurt by her. plz plz help.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

I think she understands how you feel and if it's really important to you to tell her how you're feeling, then say something like: "I know sometimes I can be a bit of a burden to you, but if I'm too much, then please tell me"
Good luck and remember that many times we give more than what we receive.