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Question: Is it okay to have a sex scene in your 1st book!?
Im writing a book were there's romance!. WOuld it be okay to write a sex scene in it!.
Im only asking before I read many series book and the main characters usaully have sex in the 4,5, 6 bookWww@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Don't worry about whether it's your first book or your hundredth!.

If it is relevant to the story, (advances the plot, shows character development, etc!.) it needs to be included!. If it is just there for shock value because you think readers want one, then a good editor will pull it out anyway!.

Once you have determined whether it needs to be there, you need to consider very carefully HOW you write it!. Depending on who your audience is (teens!? adults!?) and your purpose (see above) you will want different details!.

Example of an award winning first book BASED on sex, but with hardly any graphic detail: Story of a Girl, by Sara Zarr!.

Example of a book with a sex scene with almost no detail, lasting less than 2 paragraphs, but necessary to show one character's control over another: Painting Caitlyn, by Kimberly Joy Peters (yep - that's me)!.

Best-selling author Naomi Wolf wrote an amazing article on sex in teen novels a couple of years ago!. Check it out - http://www!.nytimes!.com/2006/03/12/books/!.!.!.

Good luck, and - as Caitlyn said to her best friend Ashley in their sequel - "trust yourself"!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's okay, because you choose!. If you want my personal opinion, I would say that it all depends on wether you build up the two character's relationship enough!. As long as it's a very magical and warm thing, a sensual moment between two great characters, where before there stood such tension and seduction and heat!.!.!. XD!. Either way, it's your book! If it ever gets published, do post the name of it somewhere! I'll want to read it!. XDWww@QuestionHome@Com

This is your book and i think sure why not!.Do what you want!.Sex sceans shouldnt be sleezy!. Make sure it show somthing like a sceret a character cant bear to keep to themselves any longer or somthing like that:) good luck with the book!Www@QuestionHome@Com

I believe it is OK to have your scene if you find it necessary for the plot!. However as it is your first book try not to make it to "hardcore"!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Not every book is the same!. So why not!? It's not going to make you a bad writer if you write a sex scene in your first novel!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

This is your creation, do it as you want! This is what makes an author good!Www@QuestionHome@Com

so long as it fits teh story then go with it!.

my first publlished book had plenty of sex in itWww@QuestionHome@Com

i dont see why not!?Www@QuestionHome@Com