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Question: Was this a good idea (for a date)!?
I'm asking this in the Books and authors section because I like the opinions you guys have!.
Okay, my boyfriend and I have basically had 1 date!. And it was to Homecoming!. We've also been together for over 1 month!. And again, no kiss!. I just texted him asking if he'd want to hang out this weekend!. Maybe to go bowling or something!.!.!.I don't know!. I guess it's my last attempt at salvaging this relationship!. Was it a good idea!? (Oh and I texted him because I know I wouldn't be able to deal with asking him in person or on the phone!.!.!.ugh!. rejection would suck) Ugh, and if his parents say no I'm going to get so ticked!. This would be the second time they say no to us hanging out together!. Of course the first time they said know, they'd only known about me for three days or something!.!.!.Hopefully this time we'll be able to go out!. I mean he is my boyfriend!. We should be able to go out on dates and have fun!. *crosses fingers*Www@QuestionHome@Com
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Nicky a date can be anything so yes, that's fine!. Go bowling!. Or the movies or something!.
And if his parent's get pissed and say no, then screw them!.
Are you really sure you want to go out with him!? Because you already told me you don't even care!. Don't do it just to try and see if it can work out!. It's just not worth your time and energy!. I'm not saying to just stop being his friend, but think about it ok!? You don't even seem to be happy with him!.
Be his friend!. Tell him that's all it will be!. There's absolutely nothing wrong!. And it really seems weird that he's not ever asking you out and always seem to be scared to do anything with you!. It's almost as if he may have the same feelings you do!. He just wants to be friends!.
So it might not be too bad after all!. But just do what you think is right!. If you want to go out, the go out, no harm in that!. Www@QuestionHome@Com
You should go out with him if you want to!. It's alright if you texted him to ask!. Go bowling!. Or have a romantic walk in a park (I prefer doing this actually since it's low cost and it's nice to just talk while holding hands)
If his parents say no the second time, ask your boyfriend to talk to them about it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
i think it was a great idea, it'll be much less painful if he does reject you, if he doesnt reject you he must still like you!.!.!. and then you'll be able to determine if you want to keep dating him, but if you realize that you dont want to be with him dont procrastinate with dumping him, that would be just leading him onWww@QuestionHome@Com
ok yes i do think bowling would be ok but i highly recommend the movies if ur looking for a kiss lol mabey u could get a bite to eat after lol but i think if uve been going out a month u should definately go out more!! k hope that helpsWww@QuestionHome@Com
maybe something a bit more fun than bowling but otherwise it is a great idea!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Dear Nicole
We should know how old you are before we can give you good/sensible advice!. If you are still depending on the parents' permission for dating, I assume you are between 13 and 16!. If his parents say NO then no it is!. You maybe have a reputation for something!? Or his parents are very involved with his life and want to know you a bit more before allowing YOU and HIM to be alone in a place where he COULD kiss you!
If you are wanting a kiss on the second date - well, home bun, I am with the parents!. You are NOT the kind of girl I want my son hanging around with!. Sorry!.Www@QuestionHome@Com