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Question: I'm writing a book, and I have a survey for you!?
Hi, there!. I'm writing a novel, and I'd like a little itty bitty help from you guys! :) You don't have to answer all of the questions if you don't want to!. Well, really, you don't have to do this at all, but it's just a little survey that would totally help me out!. Thanks super-duper much!. :)

1!. What are some big and little things about a woman/man you have feelings for that make you like them!?
2!. How important are looks to you in a relationship!?
3!. How about the smell!? Obviously BO is turning people off, but does it make a difference to you if he/she wears cologne/perfume!?
4!. What is something that your partner has done to WOW you!?
5!. Your ideal woman/man looks like:
6: and acts like:
7!. Ideal age to fall in love in your opinion:

now these are random-sounding, and personal questions!.
8!. Your favorite season is!?
9!. Do you prefer a sunset or a sunrise!?
10!. What is your ideal date-night like!?
11!. What is your ideal all-guy/all-girl night like!?
12!. Shoes or sandals, and why!? (also depending on your sex)
13!. What foreign accent on the opposite sex appeals to you most!?



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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
1!. a good sense of humor, quirks, accepting, trustworthy, nice and loving
2!. not very important at all!. If i like someone a lot, no matter what they look like, they automatically become amazingly handsome to me!.
3!. I don't care if he's wearing cologne or not but if he is then I would prefer it if he just had on a little amount and not half the bottle!.
4!. just loved me
5!. no ideal looks
6!. sweet, funny, somewhat random, good sense of humor, laughs a lot but can be serious or sad sometimes!.
7!. there's no ideal age!. It happens when it happens!. I have to say though, the sooner the better ;)

8!. fall and winter
9!. sunrise
10!. going out/in with someone I really want to be with!.
11!. going to the mall, window shopping, getting starbucks (white chocolate mocha's), going into the bookstore and looking at all the ridiculous books and then going to get CD's or see a movie!.
12!. shoes, I like having my feet covered, it keeps them nice and warm and sandals are terrible for your posture and feet!.
13!. french, italian, british, american!. Those appeal to me the most but when it comes to someone I really like, it doesn't matter what accent they have!.

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2!. looks are very important
3!. smell is very important
4!. cook a great dinner
7!. 32-35
8!. summer
9!. sunset
13!. Australian
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3!. my mom (49) hates a guy wearing cologne!.!.she thinks it's feminine!. I'm 24 and I think it's sexy!.!.but I'm for it either way!. However, if you hand me an ugly "mofo", put us in a dark room, and dab cologne on the guy!.!.I'm good!. haha

4!. my husband and I had a fight!. he said he was going to get some fast food and when he'd left he called me and said he was picking me up for our date!. He took me to a movie I'd been wanting to see!. Luckily, I was already dressed up and not just getting out of the shower!.

7!.!.Ideal age to fall in love is between 20 and 30!.

12!. always shoes for both sexes!.!.!.no one wants to see crusty feet, especially crusty guy feet, looking like hobbit feet! ick! If you're at a beach then barefoot!.

13!. skip accents!. they get old!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

1) Just that they love me for who I am!.
2) Physical attraction is the first thing that happens between two people, before the emotional/mental attraction, so I'd say it's important!.
3) LIGHT cologne!. Anything too heavy and I find myself sneezing constantly haha!.
4) Just little things!.!.!.like picking me up for breakfast in the morning unannounced!. It's never been one big thing!. The little things mean the most!.
5) Umm!.!.!.Leonardo DiCaprio!? ahaha
6) My best friend!.
7) Whenever you're ready for it!.
8) Autumn!.
9) Sunrise!.
10) Sitting up late, talking
11) Movies, gossipping
12) Sandals I guess, but bare feet preferably!. I like the feel of the ground underneath my feet!. Sounds hippie-ish, I know lol!.
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1!. What are some big and little things about a woman/man you have feelings for that make you like them!?
- I like it when guys smell good :P But uh, I like it when they're sweet, totally funny, and it doesn't feel like I'm talking to a rock!. Little things, I really like the way the treat me, like when they just do something sweet and spontaneous out of no where!. Or like their little weird habits!. And polite!. I like polite people!.
2!. How important are looks to you in a relationship!?
-within reason!. I still go for decent looking guys, as long as their personalities are good, they're cute to me!.
3!. How about the smell!? Obviously BO is turning people off, but does it make a difference to you if he/she wears cologne/perfume!?
-to a limit!. I don't want to suffocate, kthnx!.
4!. What is something that your partner has done to WOW you!?
- mm, nothing really, my guys don't really WOW me, I mean they do, but just little thing, nothing is sticking now!.
5!. Your ideal woman/man looks like:
- John O'Callaghan of The Maine!. (They're a band)!. But uh, he's my eye candy right now!.
6: and acts like:
-a gentlemen, but still funny!.
7!. Ideal age to fall in love in your opinion:
-Age has nothing to do with it, I believe it's not love with a certain person (very rarely though), I think it's how you get to the love in the relationship!. But I do think some people are meant for others, but very rarely, as I pointed out!.

now these are random-sounding, and personal questions!.
8!. Your favorite season is!?
- autumn/fall

9!. Do you prefer a sunset or a sunrise!?
-sunrise
10!. What is your ideal date-night like!?
-anything fun!. It can be a concert, dinner, beach, as long as it's fun and there are no whores :]
11!. What is your ideal all-guy/all-girl night like!?
-Driving on the streets, music blaring and singing at the top of our lungs!. Maybe just chill at a parking lot (with guys), or even like a movie night!. Whatever, it just has to be fun, but not like a dumpster or anything!.
12!. Shoes or sandals, and why!? (also depending on your sex)
-I like wearing shoes, mainly cause I am very clumsy, and wearing shoes gives me a lower chance of tripping, and being stepped on!. But I'm anal about my shoes being stepped on!. But I do wear sandals too!.
13!. What foreign accent on the opposite sex appeals to you most!?
-English accents!. -swoons-


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1!. Can't really answer -- I love because I love -- things I like in HIM may be totally dorky on someone I don't love!.
2!. Looks are icing on the cake, and it's important to look good -- but also important to be yourself once in awhile, too!.
3!. Honey, BO can be a huge turn-on if it's the right kind!. I believe the attraction comes first, then you notice the smell!. My husband wears Nivea, and used to come in first thing in the morning smelling of hay and fresh milk (he's a dairy farmer), and those are some of the best smells in the world!. However, I will admit a nice cologne can be a turn-on on the right guy!.
4!. Flowers, cookies -- I think he got it from a book, though! LOL! Little things like making sure I have a decent computer and cell phone (although, only after we were married!. However, the first thing we bought together as a couple was a washing machine, since I needed one and we were getting married in a few months anyway!.)
5!. Actually, looks are a poor thing to judge an ideal guy on!. It's nice if he has them, but being a kind person, and potentially a decent father are the things I'd tell my daughters to look for in a husband!.
6!. He needs to act like he's interested in me -- and it better be more than an act!. A basic sense of decency towards all people is also a good sign!.
7!. Love finds you when love finds you!. But, if you are talking about monogamous love, I think a person should live a little first -- 25 being about the minimum age (although, I met my guy at 19, and was monogamous pretty much from the start -- but I would have liked to meet him after a few more dating adventures, to tell the truth)!.

8!. spring
9!. sunset
10!. Going to a great party, flirting with each other in front of people, leaving the party early, and being alone and romantic with each other afterward!.
11!. Dinner at an all-you-can-eat Japanese BBQ restaurant, then some karaoke, then wind down with videos and a "pajama party" after!.
12!. Shoes -- my toes are kind of gross!. (-: But since your character can have any kind of feet she wants, I'd say sandals are sexier and will appeal to women's senses of fantasy!.
13!. Oh, god, any accent is good!. It's so cute! But getting involved with a foreign guy involves a lot of non-romantic work -- I know; three out of my four serious boyfriends had accents!. French guys -- ooh-la-la, but they like to argue and get to be a right pain pretty darn quick LOL!
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