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Question: Tom Robbins asked it first, "How do you make love stay!?" Well, how do you !?
Can you fight for it!? Or do you just have to get lucky!?

Is it a myth!? A habit!? A choice!? A force field!?

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Romantic love is a force field but is pretty much a hormonal thing!. You are so lustful for the other person that you do not foresee future problems nor do you care!. You make real love stay by understanding that the PBA's of romantic love go away!.!.!.at least for the current person!. You can either chase the hormones or opt to stay and work out your differences!. Real love is a true friendship and the end result is a life companion!. You must be committed to yourself first for if you cannot understand or want to understand yourself, you will never understand another human!. I have been with my partner for 20 years and it has been one h!.!.!. of a hard time to remain committed!. In remaining committed, I have learned hard truths about myself!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's an emotion!.

You can't "feel" love, that's horribly played out with poetry!.

You don't make love stay, it should on it's own, once someone builds a wall around them, love will shatter it down to recover the person!.

It's not about luck!.

It's not a myth, neither a habit!. One cannot choice whom to love!.

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I can't believe I'm being asked this question at this time!. I'm presently going through a torturous separation from the love of my life!. If I knew the answer to this question, I'd be the richest person alive---because I'd have my beloved!. I know this!. You can't "make" love stay!. You can only leave yourself open to love, to keep loving, and if it comes back to you, you win!. If it leaves, you lose--and suffer the loss!. But you can't love looking for something in return!. Love is meant to give!. And hope for the return!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Chemistry plays a part, but my husband and I have a strong connection because we have so many similar interests!.

We also work at keeping the romance there!. We still kiss at red lights, hold hands, have dates and we have been together over 25 years!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Love stays by the two that are in the relationship, ya you may argue just like anybody else but with love you always get through it, and that is that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

The only thing you can really do to make love stay, is being the same person that the other person fell in love with from the beginning!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

A sound proof basement and a good chain has always worked for me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

How do you make love stay!? Duct Tape! Fixes everythingWww@QuestionHome@Com