What book would your recommend as a "primer" to read before getting ma

Question: What book would your recommend as a "primer" to read before getting married!?
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Becoming Partners by Carl Rogers!. - Using interviews in the partner's own words, the author gives the reader a series of slices, pictures, perceptions--of relationships, breakdowns, restructurings--in a wide variety of partnerships!. These are followed by his own incisive commentary and summation!. The interviews span a variety of relationships, among others the author's own marriage, conventional, long-lived and successful; commune group marriages, a triangle, a quartet, a racially mixed etc!. And at no time does Dr!. Rogers attempt to pass judgment on whether the unions are good or bad: they simply exist , and that is enough!. Dr!. James C!. RonningWww@QuestionHome@Com

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary ChapmanWww@QuestionHome@Com