When a person has left and said nothing and has not given any indication that th

Question:... and you sit around thinking that they really DO care and that they will call or appreciate an email or a letter

That's insanity, right?

I sit here convincing myself that he is missing me and the only reason he isn't in contact is because I was snarky over an email

He doesn't care - I can't convince myself of that and yet it is glaringly obvious.

Part of me thinks we will touch base again and be friends and my rational side is saying "you have GOT to be kidding"

I can't let go

Driving me crazy

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: ... and you sit around thinking that they really DO care and that they will call or appreciate an email or a letter

That's insanity, right?

I sit here convincing myself that he is missing me and the only reason he isn't in contact is because I was snarky over an email

He doesn't care - I can't convince myself of that and yet it is glaringly obvious.

Part of me thinks we will touch base again and be friends and my rational side is saying "you have GOT to be kidding"

I can't let go

Driving me crazy

The bottom of your very soul has dropped out...You need to try and center your inner-self. Have you talked to a very good friend about this? Is the person a family member, or lover? It's the silence that you suffer in, so blank, all gray if one little word were given to you it would help to bring closer...does this person like to leave you hanging on every word, and go off and wants you to suffer. Maybe just likes drama? Work from the past in your relationship....see if you have been holding the bag before...and they are the ones that always do the walking and the silent thing.

You can do far better for yourself don't waste your time. There are others out there that would love to meet you.

Probaly cheating or have own problems.... just move on, obviously that person wasn't wasn't the right one for you. There are many other fishes in the sea

Hi,
If it is insanity, then you're not alone. I'm going
thru the same thing you are, and I'm also looking
for answers. All I can say is, hopefully we will get
some good advice. Wish you the best.

well its a skill in life to let go of a person who is much less fond of one, than one is of him. if he cares so little, better u put him out of mind before he cause more pain, & find a happier person to love. when u catch yourself - mooning - disciupline yourself to think of something else more positive!
gd luck