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Question: Why are fueled by primitive carnal desire! I feel controlled!.!.!.!.!.!?
Have you ever seen a chick and had lust!? Why can't we just be free of instinct and control our selfs of basic needs!? I know we would'nt exist but why this adulterous facet of civilized pleasure!?!?!? Help!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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You should feel controlled!. We control ourselves, yet we have no control!. It is a problem with consciousness - a dog doesn't worry about this sort of stuff because it isn't self-conscious!. We on the other hand realise our impulses for what they are, and it can drive us crazy if we care to entertain ourselves with the thought!.

Think about what you are asking:
"Why can't we just be free of instinct and control our selfs of basic needs!?"
To be free of instinct is an impossibility!. We only have instinct!. Thinking is instinctive - it is what has put us at the top of the animal kingdom!. Thinking about sex is a major part of instinct as well, for obvious reasons!. The best we can do is eliminate these 'lower', more primitive, 'animalistic' instincts and focus instead on more developed, rational, self-conscious thought!.

I too resent what you call the "adulterous facet of civilized pleasure", although it is only one of a long list of things I am dissatisfied and disillusioned with!. I will try to find an alternative lifestyle, some already exist!. Perhaps we could both benefit by reading up on Buddhism, from the little I know Buddhists are motivated by similar causes!. The interesting thing is that Buddha claimed to have found the best way - the 'middle way' - that is not extreme abstinance yet not extreme indulgence!.

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That is the way of the Eight Fold Path!. Look it up!. You are in the philosophical discussion area, so you are bound to find out other ideas to harness those basic instincts!. But, my question is why do you feel the way you react is wrong!? It is not wrong!. Anyways check it out, and see if you cannot solve your problem!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.primitive carnal desire!.!.!.lust!.!.!.instinct!.!.!.basic needs!.!.!.civilized pleasure!.!.!.
!.!.!.only word made no sense is adulterous, you did nothing wrong, you recognized your feelings and moved on!.!.!.
!.!.!.be confident and responsible for all your choices and actions!.!.!.
!.!.!.life is short!.!.!.enjoy your life, move on!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You can learn to Control yourself!. Someday, you may see an individual for who they are inside!. I think wisdom allows for that process!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I can't imagine why you'd think it's so unnatural!.Www@QuestionHome@Com