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Question: What if your best friend is a guy, can you stay friends when both of you are in serious relationships!?
Okay lets say you have a best friend that is a guy and he's straight but both of you date other people, can you still stay friends even though both of you are in serious relationships with other people!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Yes!. Friendship goes deeper than a sexual relationship!. This is why it is so important to be friends first, with a loved one!.
I have a male friend who I have been friends with for 20 years!. We have gone on rock expeditions for a whole weekend!. Or stayed up all night just goofing off!. Sex would never enter the picture!. It would only ruin the friendship!. I have been married to my hubby for 25 years!.
We all get along just fine!. There is a unspoken respect between us!. :DWww@QuestionHome@Com

The fact that you asked this question has me concerned!.

What do you think!?

Can you stay friends, only friends and nothing else!?

Or perhaps there is some underlying attraction that you are denying to yourself, and you think that it will not go any further, believe me it will!.

Sweetheart, only you can answer this question!.

I hope you can remain only friends!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Absolutely!. My best friend and I have been best friends forever!. Through boy/girlfriends!. Husbands, wives, divorce, new husbad and new wife!. There's no reason to stop being friends!. It's the same as if he was one of your girl friends, really!. You can have a boyfriend and still keep your other friends, so why not him!? Maybe you could double date or something!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

NO, it will disrupt your and my relationship!. in the end, u and me enjoy SEX together!. I dun lie, I see many cases oredi!. hee hee!. and i will never do that too!. why!? :X but one fine day, u will know why, the reason!. hee hee!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

sure as long as you are mature about it!. and the people you are dating have to also be mature enough not to be jealous and cause problems!. but there is nothing wrong with being a friend with a guy!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

yes!. i have been married twice and have had one friend remain through it all, and he's a guy!. we've been friends since we were 15!. we've never had any kind of romantic relationship, ever!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Of course!.Www@QuestionHome@Com