Is it possible to live alone your whole life and be happy?

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I had a rough childhood and never had any family, I grew up and had issues but I loved women and looked forward to getting a girl more then anything, then about 4 months ago I recieved an injury/problem that has basically resulted in my loss of sexual function and I basically feel like I am in hell

I was looking forward to getting a girl more then anything in the world, now I am faced with the prospects of living alone and empty life, never being loved or never having someone I can trust or really love

How does one survive, what is the purpose to life at this point!? was alone my whole life and looking forward to someone, now I will be alone the rest of my life and this really sucks

And please dont bring up religion or god, I was a convinced Atheist before all this and now I am surely a convinced atheist, please dont tell me I need gods love or somethingWww@QuestionHome@Com

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The world is full of surprises!. You may still meet the perfect person for you!. You just have to wait!. Find some meaningful things to do with yourself when not working!. All sorts of volunteering that can be done which will help you meet many more people!. Hang in there and I"ll keep my fingers crossed for you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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I can see why you'd feel that way, I almost always feel that way, relationships are hard as is and when you lose the ability to have sex, that makes it difficult but I think that there's atleast one person out there that will love you despite your faults, it's just a matter of finding them!. If you have problems finding women to date, try working on yourself because if you don't have confidence in yourself, people will see that!. It's hard to fall in love with someone who doesn't really love themselves!. I'm not sure if that's your case, i just don't want you to give up!. Just give it time and maybe you'll meet the right girl someday!. life's kinda always left up to chance, you never really know whats going to happen next so you just have to live it and see what happens!. hope that helps somewhat!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Very often, especially these days, women have low libido levels due to medications, stress, exhaustion!. There are lots of women who find sex to be a chore, especially after the 'honeymoon phase' has ended!.

The most important aspects of a loving relationship is respect, really enjoying one another's company, finding some interests in common!. There is a national organization called Meetup!.com that has any and every sort of group possible!. Look up meetup!.com and go through the 100's maybe thousands of groups out there and I bet you will find an avenue that will help!. And !.!.!. p!.s!. a man can satisfy a woman sexually in many ways, not just one!.

I believe humans are meant to be in couples!. Don't give up!Www@QuestionHome@Com

I was married for 14 years!. When I got divorced 16 years ago, I thought it was the end of the world!. I didn't think I could survive!. I date occasionally, but I found out through the years that it isn't being with someone that brings you happiness!. Your life is what you make of it!. I doubt that I will ever find anyone that I can be happy with!. There are a lot of things you can do!. Get involved in the community or whatever!. Just don't shut yourself in, because that will make it worse!.Www@QuestionHome@Com