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Question: Why do I turn opportunity into a disaster!?
aren't it suppose to be vice versa, turning a disaster into an opportunity!. why am I destructive, I'm not doing it intentionally, it just happens!. Why!?!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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Your right, it's not that you are meaning to do this!. However, folks like you and me have a habit of destructing things before we can get pleasure out of them!. This is what I call it, and it's really a general term!. "I am going to mess this up myself, before someone else can come and mess it up for me!.' Basically you are guarding yourself from some kind of harm or sadness!. You want to get rid of things as quickly as possible so your not the one being sad in the end!. You figure if "I break up with him/her first, then it will save me the heartache of him/her breaking up with me later!."

It's a defense mechanism against the low self esteem we already have!. (Even if we don't admit it)!. You, like myself, have to come out of our comfort zones, and do something we don't normally do!. Reach out a little further each time until you can incorporate the "new" into what already exsist!. God Bless
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Could it be poor planning!? Hustling customers!? Being a little less than honest!?

Or could it be that the opportunity you perceived was actually putting money in someone else's pocket!?

When you see an opportunity, look for hidden costs!. If it costs you to get the information to do it, it's a scam!. Someone is getting rich off of selling you information and there's probably nothing more to that information than how to make money selling it to other suckers!.

If the opportunity passes that test, ask yourself if it is a good product!. If it is and you like using it, then you might want to pursue it!. If its a piece of crap or if there are other products like it on the market, skip it!.

If the opportunity is a service rather than a product, it is cheaper to sale, but you have to put a lot of hours into marketing it!. If you don't advertise (costs money), no one will know about it!.

Keep in mind that if YOU want it and no one else is offering it, it's a better deal!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

You need to take a different approach!. Why not try to focus on sustaining success by maintaining a high interest in what you are doing!. Try reading about the possibilities given any opportunity open to you!. Work, work, work!. Don't let your guard down!. Make it work!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

maybe your scared of something good happening so you go into self destruct mode sub consciously- maybe a bit far fetched and psychological!. maybe you try to hard instead of going with the flow!. or maybe it wasnt meant to be to begin- what you think is an op isnt for u so you miss out on others!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It doesn't matter why you're doing it, it matters that you are!. The good news is that you know it!. Now try to take some positive steps to change your behavior!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Read "The Secrets of the Millionaire Mind"!. by T!. Harv Ecker
Don't just read it,do the practices!. They work!Www@QuestionHome@Com

You fail at life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

cos u r negative!.!.!.!.!.think positive dont fear work will b done!Www@QuestionHome@Com