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Question: Have you ever broken someone's heart by trashing him or her!?
How did you feel afterwards and did you ever try to ask for his/her forgiveness later even though you'd be never able to be with him/her again!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


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I never thought it to be appropriate ! if things didn't work out then you were not meant to be !. There is no reason to hurt that person or yourself anymore !. I think that if possiable it is best to stay friends with those that you have tried to have a relationship with because there was obviously something that you liked about him or her !. Just because things don't work out romanticaly doesn't mean that you can't remain friends for life !.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Hi Amir,
I'm pretty sure I have!. I used to say sometimes mean things when I was younger!. I was immature!. I always felt terrible and sad whenever I hurt someone!. I know how it feels to be hurt!. Yes, I ask forgiveness each time now!. I don't believe that I will never be able to see them again!. I have faith!. Very big faith!

Thanks for your question, Amir!. Happy day! Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes but sometimes the truth just hurts!. So if I said it then the person needed to hear it, very rarely do I do things I regret!.!.!.!. anymore, but when I do I always apologize and make amends!. But my friends know if I say something it's because i CARE!. If I don't care about the person then I don't care if they change and I will abide by the motto of live and let live!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I would never trash somone regardless of what they'd done,if you have feelings for someone in the first place,they don't just disappear because you break up!.!.!.!.!.
If someone trashed me,i would never forgive them & i would never want to be with them again whether they begged forgiveness or not!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

well !.!. yeah !.!. I was 15 and it was my first boyfriend!. But I didn't exactly "trash" him!. I was falling out of love with him, so I just stopped talking to him all of a sudden, without any explanations, warnings !.!. none at all!. He tried to contact me lots of times, but I didnt respond (I knw !.!. so evil of me)

It was bad, I knw, but I was a stupid girl back then!. I know he was hurt, he even moved out of the country to get over me (or so I heard from some friends of mine)!. I felt really bad, but it was already too late to turn back!. So !.!. well !.!. after almost 4/5 years of our breakup, I heard from a friend that he is back in the country !.!. so I called him up, and apologized to him!. I told him I was stupid to leave him like that!. I owed him an explanation !.!. that I did deliver after 5 long years !.!. Wow!

So !.!.!. yeah !.!.!. I broke his heart, and I apologized after 5 years!. Better late than never, right!? Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes (not physically of course)!.

I felt terrible!.

Within hours I appologised and asked for forgivness because firstly I was wrong, secondly I hurt her and she did not deserve that!.

No we were not together after that but we were and still are friends!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I've broken a couple of hearts before; no I've never appologized!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

No!. Never sought forgiveness, it was unnecessary,Www@QuestionHome@Com

oh i did !.!.!.i apologised as well even though i knew i couldnt be with them !.!.!.!.!.!.!.buh yeah it helps you getting over the guilt of hurting smbody!.!.!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

no i always sed it in a niceway Www@QuestionHome@Com

no, never that wayWww@QuestionHome@Com

no i can honestly say i haven't mess any girls feelings!.Www@QuestionHome@Com