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Question: Do you think if someone is meant to be in your life, they will no matter what!?
Do you think that if someone is supposed to be in your life, that they will be!? No matter what obstacles or troubles, do you think if someone is meant to be in your life they'll find a way back to you!? What if you left someone awhile ago and you've been trying to forget about them and move on, but for some reason they keep finding their way back to you!? And it's not like their purposely searching for you, different situations and circumstances just tend to bring you together, do you think that means anything!?

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I do think that everything is written, when we will be born, and when we will die, and with whom we will spend time!. This, however, does not really conflict with free will, because we are free to make our choices!.

I would like to illustrate it like this : let's say, for argument's sake, that everyone has his or her "bowl of chance" in which is written on little slips of paper, all of the events which are particular to that person's existence!. When you utilize your free will, you take out one little slip of paper and experience what is on it!. Sometimes there is a consequential order, sometimes not!.

To answer your question directly, and in harmony with what I am saying, I think that YES it is possible that people come and go in and out of our lives, we don't know all the reasons if even any of them, but I know of people who had divorced with NO HOPE of ever returning together but 10 years later had both changed, met again, fell in love again and remarried!. Of course it sounds like a fairytale, but anything is possible!.

The one factor which makes a difference in a believing person's karma, from a non-believing person's, is that as a believer, one knows that the Almighty Creator can affect any changes that He wants to in someones lifetime, and does so, if it is in accordance with His will, if the person asks enough and shows him/her self to God as a sincere worshipper!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes!

There was a thing that went around on the net awhile back and I believe it was entitled 'A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime!." It says something along the lines that sometimes a person just passes through your life and are there when you need them!. They were there for a reason!. Then sometimes someone comes into your life and lingers for awhile!. They are said to be in your life for a season!. Then the last one, the lifetime, are people who are always there, such as your family!. It's a beautiful story and the whole thing is so beautiful and so true!. Remember: A reason, a season or a lifetime!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

think life is a series of chances and coincidences, and that there is no such thing as fate!. It's why we love ramanctic books and films - we yearn for that beautiful, fixed aspect to our lives!. We always know th hero and heroine will end up together, whatever happens!. It's set!.

In life, however, I don't think things happen like that!. I don't call coincidences 'fate' - I call them coincidences, and treasure them like prized possessions!. There are so many choices and chances and an infinite number of variables open to us, and so many things COULD have been, and weren't!. So many things could have happened, or could have been prevented!. There is no guiding hand, at least not for me!. There is only the beautiful question 'What if!?'Www@QuestionHome@Com

No I don't think so!. The bus comes by and you have a chance to get on or not!. Then it leaves and that's that!. When it comes back, it's not really the same!.

Like random molecules flying around and by chance joining another that happens to be a good match!. But if it misses that one, it keeps flying around and eventually it finds another!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I do believe people will be in your life no matter what if you think they are meant to be in your life!. I feel that certain people are meant to be in my life and they will be be no matter what!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you open yourself to correction it will accelerate the process!. Otherwise it could take lifetimes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes its true that past life people do crop in no matter how hard one may try to avoid!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Life throws up surprises every now and then!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

!.!.!.i agree!.!.!.thanks for asking!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Interesting question!. I do not know the answer for sure, however the timing of your question is a bit intriguing!. Lately, I have been dreaming about (sometimes thinking about) the 'husband of my youth'!. I thought favourably of him at the time I was with him (dear Lord please forgive me, he was so stunningly attractive to me and it was hard to believe he was a real man), however we did not get along well on a daily basis!. We had completely different spirituality's (I am a Christian, he was an atheist), I had a mental illness (neither of us knew it at the time), he drank alcohol and smoked marijuana (I did neither), he worked shift work (I didn't see him much)!. It was a sad existence for the most part!. I longed for him many days and nights and wished things were different for us!. He taught me how to drive (in his brand new car!) so he trusted me! We did have some fun together - I remember a particular Christmas party we went to, our first one!. All our friends were there!. It was so much fun! I really shouldn't reminisce, though, it's been years since I've seen or heard anything about him!. If we had stayed together until now, we would have celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary this year!. It's sad!.!.!. I only ever wanted one husband, like God says!. I just didn't know how to go about it right!.
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