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Question: Why is life so hard at times!?
I'm a 20 year old kid, and its hard making enough money while i'm going to college!. I'm just wondering why life is so hard sometimes!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


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My belief is that the Creator (God, if you will) is not perfect!. It is flawed!. There should not be any suffering in this world, regardless of the lessons it might teach us!. But why such extensive suffering for individual and worldwide!.

In my life I have suffered a lot as well!. So I understand how you feel!. Don't clutter your mind with issues that are absolutely unnecessay such as how will I survive!.

Live in the present!. Every day get up and know the past is gone and your only option is to move forward!.

Uncluttering your mind makes it possible for you to have clarity of thought, to seek solutions on how to handle difficult times, talk to all who you love and trust, allow all the people who love and trust you to give a helping hand, for example ask your parents for financial support and emotional loving support is that is an option in your situation!.

also talk with adviser; they have a lot of resources to refer you to!. Get financial aid in forms of grants or scholarship which means you don't have to pay them back!. At the last resort, you could apply for student loans now to make life more bearable until you graduate and start your career; all student loans don't charge you interest and only require monthly installments after you graduate!. So this my be an option for you!.

When I was your age, I felt the same exact way!. Now that I am older i feel the same way too but only because of events in my life that lead to my depression!. Through therapy I will gain back the confidence to belive in my self and not let any obsticles stop me from going forward!. But with experience I have learned that I can identify list of things that make life hard for me, and look at each individually, and with you unclutterd mind come up with a solution!. This will empower you, and give you more control over your own life!.

I pray that you will be given all the tools to make your life less difficult

I am so very sorry that you have to experince hardship at such a young age!. I wish you happiness, peace, prosperity, contentment, and abilities you possess to help make life easier!.

I wish you the best!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

That does sound hard and it is temporary!. The hard work you are putting in now will help you later in life (which is, I'm sure why you are doing it)!. You are going through a challenging time but it will pass!.

Meanwhile, maybe you can change your outlook a bit by taking the posture that life isn't hard but that whatever challenges you are facing are simply classes that you are taking in this universe that is a university!. So, you're going to college but you are also going to "life school!."Www@QuestionHome@Com

because were a capitalist society and there are just a few with practically all the bucks and they control the game and you cant win!. in Venezuela everyone has a mortgage they can afford and if they have some land the govt will build them a new home and they have free health care and a retirement plan and gas is dirt cheap !. why cant we do this for our owen people and give everyone a decent future to raise there children and education shouldn't cost a fortune for you it should be free !.i feel our youth is just as important as our military we should invest in you and every young kid who wants to better themselves and expect great results !. but we just make the wealthy fat while we starveWww@QuestionHome@Com

Chin - up~ be grateful your getting the education you need to succeed in this competitive society!. Life is what it is!. If you weren't in school you'd be at work not making enough money because you didn't have an education- its a double edged sword!. Cruel world!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

idk, but i like this song lol http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=ioAQTwc8O!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

because god gives us challanges in life: he wouldnt if he didn't think u could pass them, and without tests what would life be!? we wouldnt appreciate things as much and wed just lie around all day doing nothing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

It's part of life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

life is a test of endurance!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

because that's life kid!.Www@QuestionHome@Com