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Question: How to break down an emotional wall!?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months!.
Are relationship is very good!. We can talk about anything!. We often say things at the same time!. Very comfortable and open to each other without problems!. And our sex is great!. The only problem is he has an emotional wall up!. Worried I will hurt him!. We both agreed that we wanna be together but we need to work threw this!. And I have no idea how to work on an emotional wall!. He told me he is just worried I will hurt him!. This is the only problem in our relationship!. Any ideas on how to start breaking it down!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Emotional walls are built up through being hurt by somebody that we've loved who has done something to us!. The longer we live, the more relationships we have end badly, the higher the walls within us become!. I know!. As the kids say: Been there, done that!.

My trust factor is at zero now and I feel for the next man who tries to love me!. It's going to take a lot of patience and understanding on his part!. And that's all the advice I can give you: Have patience and understanding, stand by him and show him your love in all things and eventually you will win his heart !. !. !. and his trust!. Never do anything to destroy that trust because, by doing so, he will end up back at square 1 !. !. !. and you will move on and never give him another thought!.

Good luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Like many, most people build an emotional wall because they have been hurt in the past!. The only way to break this is if a person trust you enough to break it!. You have to build up the trust so they trust you enough to let them in!. This may take time but it is worth it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

How to break down an emotional wall!?

A really big, emotional sledge hammer!.


I'm sorry, that wasn't at all helpful!.

You say you have a good relationship, very open about things etc, but how can this be so when he has such an !.!.!. emotional wall!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

o_O wow okay umm, im a little confused- what do you mean by an emotional wall!? im positive i can answer this, just needs clarification!.!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com