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Question: What is your opinion on this!.!.!.!?
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I am 16 years old and i go to a small that has a population of like 150-200 people!. All of my friends left me and i need to find a solution to stay in school!. I am constantly skipping school!. I don't think that i am a bad kid :( but it seems to me that other people think so!. Im not nasty, ugly or extreemly fat!. I don't strive for attention!. I just CAN'T be myself when it comes to school!. I am the most likeable person outside of school, but as soon as i step foot into school im a depressed girl!. i don't really talk to anyone anymore!. I want to graduate and go to college for interior design but i have absolutely NO umph to go to school!. My mom is constantly threatening me to kick me out if i don't go!. But i just don't care anymore!. i hate life and it sucks!. I do good in school!. A's and B's!. I have guy friends!. But it's not the same as having girls to share "things" with!. any help!?Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
First off, you do care!. You just want to get out of this miserable chapter which is bringing you down, and move on to the new one which is doing your interior design course!. Your main challenge is your bad habit of skipping school, so the problem of trying to find the 'umpth' is intensely difficult!. More difficult now to be fully on top of things, but don't make it any worse!. That cliche 'things can't get any worse' is nonsense, they can!. You don't want to upset your mom (whether she understands you, or not) and cause more aggravation for yourself in general!. Having said that though, and this is difficult, as I don't know you, if you do drop out (this situation, or any other in life), then you dropped out for a good reason because you just could not take it anymore!.!.!.so however bad things get, and whatever position in life you are in, you must never neglect to focus on your future and work from there!. My advice is just hang in there, for this is one step to the next one!. Try to develop some perseverance for dealing with such challenges in life, you will feel good for having the strength!. Again, what I see as the biggest challenge here is the habit you have got into by not attending school!. Schools are way too slack and do not enforce enough discipline!. With the friends, not easy when you don't have nice, reliable female friends you can related to!. You just have to think of the new chapters in life that will bring you opportunities to meet people you can be yourself with!. :o)Www@QuestionHome@Com

when you're in school there is a lot of peer pressure!. other students expect certain types of behavior from each other!. when someone breaks that rule, the other students don't know how to deal with it!.
be different be yourself! they may think you a little strange but, aren't we all!?Www@QuestionHome@Com