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Question: I have come to understand that my foundations as a person are built on FEAR!. I fear, and its crippling my!.!.!.!.!?
life!. Who I am is fear, my movements, my walk, my expressions, my way of talking, my identity etc!.
I have come to understand this, and have done so for over two years now!. I understand and see this, but yet I cant seems to take that one(or more) steps and throw myself into it and not let it control my life!. I assume this is the way to take it to its fullest conclusion and learn and strip "it" of its power!. !?!?

My question: Is this the way to do it!?
And why is it so difficult, what could be the reason that blocks Man from overcoming fear!?
Is it pain, is it weak soul or person, is it a weakness, is it because the feeling of fear has become familiar and feel secure, is it a limited perspective on who we\me is, is it an ego!?!?!?!?

English is not my 1st language!.
Thanks in advanced!. Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
It's the ego that imagines fear!. You can leave these imaginings by a change in perspective and asking for love to be your guiding light instead of fear!.
We are created in peace and peace permeates all of life!. Accept it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

When you fear you must develop defense mechanisms that allow you to move from fear to security!. You do this by examining that which you fear and taking precautions so that it will never succeed in paralyzing your freedom of action!. Fear is something everyone must deal with!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Fear is never security!. It's a serious condition I've lived with all my life!. But then again my childhood was full of violence so I know where my fear comes from!. Drinking sometimes help!. Med also help!. therapy didn't do anything for me as far as combating fear!. It's more fixated in me than anything else!. A bee has more power than me!. It's one of my many fears/phobia!.

I wish I can be normal and enjoy life more!.!.only if I didn't fear so much for so long!.Www@QuestionHome@Com