Question Home

Position:Home>Philosophy> What does a married woman think about sex after she gives birth? Will she ever b


Question: What does a married woman think about sex after she gives birth!? Will she ever be the same again!?
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
No!. See, even long after the birth!.!.!.stuff is still different!. Before, she was all about pleasing the most important person in her life: HER MAN!.

After, she's all about tending to the most important person in her life: HER CHILD!.

This goes on until the child is old enough to tend to the self!. Say!.!.!.10-15 years!. I know from first hand experience, it sucks!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I'm not sure I understand your question!. When you say "will she ever be the same again" are you referring to her physical or mental state!? Many many (in fact most) women go through both physical and mental changes after giving birth!. Some worry that they will not be satisfying to their husband because of the physical changes and this can lead to insecurity in the bedroom!. Some will have not as many physical changes but will feel 'guilty' spending time alone with her husband and taking time away from the baby!. Others will go back to how things are before the baby was born both image wise and mentally!.

It all depends on the woman but you need to be able to communicate with her about it!. Many men get angry with their wives because they don't try to understand what a radical change it is to a woman to have a baby!. Don't get angry, be understanding and things may return to normal sooner!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Minutes after the birth she'll be thinking "Whoa I don't think I want to do it again for quite some time!" A first time mum will probably think (as I did) I wonder if I'll feel loose to my partner now!?
We really need some condoms!.!.!.!.I should send you for a vasectomy before we do it again!.!.!.!.I just pushed out a head the size of a melon!
After the second child!.!.!.!.I wonder how long before I can do it again!?
Then another thought will be, "I wish my boobs wouldn't leak every time we do it!-for those breastfeeding!
She may feel a great deal of anxiety if she's had stitches, she may be expecting it to hurt, which it may very well do!.
another will be!.!.!.!.we really need some lube (breastfeeding dehyrdrates a woman) that's only all on a sexual level though!.
Www@QuestionHome@Com