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Question: Who is right in this situation!?
my sister told me my brothers girlfriend called her and told her that she does not care about our family and that our brother chose her and not his own family, we told that to our brother and he did not even believe us, he thinks we are only making up lies, his girlfriend stays in our house for free, whenever we would invite her to dinner she would not even look at us and just go inside her room, i dont understand this, my brother would get out of our house together with her, she destroyed our relationship with our brother, do you think its best that we just leave them alone!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
you must give time to your brother for him to realize what is more important!.
he would soon realize that "a family is only one and he could never find another family! and realize that he can find other girlsWww@QuestionHome@Com
This is a typical case of Possessiveness!. The girl feels that she has won the right to have your brother in toto and she demonstrates this in her own way!.If you , siblings, are also going to show the same possessiveness towards your brother you will end up antagonising the brother!. He has made his choice and indirectly making it known to all of you !.
Inter personal relationships are always like that !. It will happen to you also a little later !. The best way is to understand the situation, go with it and try to win the hearts of people!. No amount of compulsion will work!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
i thnk, it's better to leave him!.!.
if he chooses to be w/ hs grlfriend, rather than his own family, it's like, wanting to have his own freedom w/out ur family!.!.
check him if he's okay! if he had problems, there's nothing wrong in heping him!.!.!.!.besides, he's still ur brother!.!.
=) hope it helps!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
be super sweet to her over indulge her let your brother see you make every effort to make his girlfriend fit in more and when your brother asks you why tell him" Its beacuse I love you and if this girl makes you happy then I welcome her into our family" The relationship will soon whither and your brother will still be your brother!.Www@QuestionHome@Com
Yeah!. OR talk to your brother, which i expect could make him stick with her even more!. Just leave it i thinkWww@QuestionHome@Com